The illusion of control is driven and perpetuated by the ego which is the assumed source of the illusion of separation. What if there is more going on?
Watch what happens when you are flexible about what you choose to experience. Physical existence is what it is and you allow it and go with it or, you attempt to make experience fit your expectations. This is an invitation to be gentle with yourself, step back and review how you perceive things.
Turns out, you can control your thoughts, emotions and body responses to what you perceive. In addition, the external world you perceive is actually a mirror of the state of yoru inner world. Yet, much more is going on than you are taught. Watch and listen to the Template Ceremony of Original Innocence