Many people come to believe they are being dressed in this world by this world. That is, they are in situations they are because of conditions beyond their control. What if you take greater responsibility here? Consider a shift in perspective:
1) Your perception creates your sense of the world. Change your perception and change what you see and experience.
2) The apparent state of your external world is reflecting back how you feel inside about what truly matters. Listen to th heart.
3) Recognize beliefs are changeable. What you tell yourself is or is not possible is all in your mind. Embark on self-discovery.