Notice the flawed premise

Listen closely.  Notice what you tell yourself.  Notice when you assume conflict exists within your own mind or you see conflict arises as the result of lies you tell yourself.  The truth never opposes itself.  It just is. Notice how you feel around different people.  What happens when being in someone's presence brings out the best in you?

The larger part of you, the source energy consciousness, knows what is going on. That part of you feels its way into states of continued renewal. It knows how honest you are with yourself,  is reflected in every situation and relationship.  If you only ever feel good, you do not notice an emotional gap, and life does not cause you to expand.

Notice thoughts and beliefs you hold prevent you from allowing and being the joy that is unlimited. Where are you in vibrational relationship to unconditional love and acceptance of all you are? Notice the power of influence you have over your thoughts and feelings. Notice how people feel in your presence and whether you notice anyone at all. Notice othes are inspired and uplifted, or they express negativity and bring you down. Notice how you feel deep inside reveals itself in your external world. 

In essence, the vibrating energy that you are raises and lowers based on whether you allow what you perceive though mental filters to affect how you feel. Approach reality based on pure appreciation or not. You control how you respond to whatever unfolds. See what happens as you begin to see everything through the eyes of genuine love. Flawed premises are no longer.  This is no coincidence.  Its Cosmic Synchronicity.

"You see someone on the street, and essentially what you notice about them is the flaw [you imagine in yourself]." -Diane Arbus 

Do a deliberate exercise

Take out a sheet of paper or do this in your head.  Specify what you would like to do.  Imagine how it feels to already be doing it.  How do you sense you are already closing the gap between here and there? What prompts you to realize this thing is already done? Appreciate how it feels to experience the dream.  Share your enthusiasm. What are you thinking?

See yourself as you are

As you see yourself as you are, limitations no longer exist. You see through illusion and know clarity.  As you see yourself as you are, expectations, goals and possibilities fade, and you give your undivided attention to closing the gap.  As you see yourself as you are, you no longer care who gets credit for a result.  Instead, you focus on activating feelings of joy, security, acceptance and expansion.   As you see yourself as you are, you no longer view yourself or your ideas as an anomaly. The extraordinary becomes ordinary, and you stop resisting. As you see who you are, you realize your chosen experience is your truth at any given moment.  Knowing replaces questioning.  Stillness replaces agitation and restlessness.

You finally get it

When you finally get it, you recall what freedom is and live more fully every moment. You stop holding others to expectations and let them go.  You stop feeling dischord and recall how harmony feels.  You stop depriving yourself of what you truly want and allow it to reach you.  You detach from those people who do not resonate with how you feel and invite other people into your life who match your frequency.  You leave behind a sense of imbalance and fear to bridge the gap to know balance and love.  All of those things that used to matter become irrelevant.

Align with your dreams

Soft non-resistance vibration is what brings you things naturally.  This is about knowing what it feels like to be part of the vibrational universe, knowing you are a vibrational being that aligns with what you understand as reality.  Lay emotional claim to what is already yours.  You give power away or reclaim it.  You live someone else's dream or create your own.

You recognize a gap in your expectations and what is already yours. How can you train yourself to feel something the physical senses do not yet discern?  When you appreciate and expect it, you are there.  When you want to be somewhere, you reinforce the gap.  Stop doing what you do that keeps you feeling you do not deserve it.  Be a vibrational match to your wildest dreams to live them.  The work is done.  When you know it consciously, you appreciate everything now.