When you finally get it, you recall what freedom is and live more fully every moment. You stop holding others to expectations and let them go.  You stop feeling dischord and recall how harmony feels.  You stop depriving yourself of what you truly want and allow it to reach you.  You detach from those people who do not resonate with how you feel and invite other people into your life who match your frequency.  You leave behind a sense of imbalance and fear to bridge the gap to know balance and love.  All of those things that used to matter become irrelevant.