Over the years, I am repeatedly asked for steps or advice to assist people to feel more fulfilled or attain greater success This guided me to create the inspirational mentor interview thread and inspirational mentor articles to encourage connection, dialogue, encourage transparency so more people gain insight from unique paths. Over 5000 self-development articles exist here. Contact us to submit article topics and seminar ideas. We appreciate all your valuable contributions.
In addition, I also offer workshops where I explore the process of optimum living in more detail. This draws on insights of my 13th book now in process. Take your life to a whole new level by participating in one of our group events in 2019. The life shifts you experience speak for themselves. I share huge shifts I have experieced as the result of healing unconscious patterns, shifting perception, and retraining the mind.
For now, as a gift to yourself, ponder these 12 dimensions that shape your experience of success:
1. Clarify your version of success
Be as detailed as possible. Its sets the stage for the journey. Notice little is accomplished with tears alone or complaining about where you are not or, being frustrated about what you are not doing. Get practical: look at multiple life areas: personal, professional, spiritual, community, and others. (Refer to: Self-Disclosure: Changes from Within for sample questionnaires). Where do you ideally envision yourself? What do your loved ones say? What are you willing to choose or what drives you over everything? What if you could be a pioneer? Do what your heart years for? What is it that truly stretches and inspires you? What do you wish more than anything else? Maybe this takes shape as a bucket list: things 2 before you leave this world. Next stage make three columns in terms of priorities (A=short term, B=medium term, C= someday)
[***during my workshop, I reveal my lists, how visiting 65 countries and doing unique and daring things has happened as well as what remains for me to create, manifest and download to translate in this world]
2. Empty the Mind
While reflecting on your response to the above, empty the mind of negativity. Do a brain dump of what limits or prevents you from moving forward. We tend to adopt beliefs of people in our midst, unconsciously decide what is and is not good for us, all unconsciously before taking action. Write all examples of self-defeating or self-sabotaging thoughts running through you that discourage you, echo self-doubt, cause you to feel unworthy or to forget everything is possible. Take a close look at beliefs you are allowing to run you. Every time you lie to yourself, decide to call yourself on it. Grow aware of the lies. Its the only way to transcend them. Jot down examples where you transcend your own self-sabotage.
3. Think less, Feel More
Following the title of one of my ebooks, I invite you to feel your way to your own solutions. If money was not an obstacle, if your perceived doubts and mental clutter dissipated, how would you feel the way into new contributions to this world? What does this revised version of success look/ feel like? Imagine no limits, being heart-centred and service-driven. You can create your own fairytales by feeling the way into blessings and all that uplifts you. Notice the focus on feeling energy shapes your life. Allow yourself to feel the way into optimum living, well-being, and clarify new peak experiences. Create a new point of reference for yourself. Raise the bar higher. Why tell yourself you must work toward intermittent peak experiences? Why not instead convince yourself everything is part of the same peak experience you fragment with the mind?
4. Access hidden genius
Regardless of your evolving vision of success, inviting external guidance helps expand awareness so you reclaim inner power. Mentors, coaches, inspirations, teachers, all empower you to recall what matters, encourage you to push the limits of your talents and access your hidden genius. This is about listen to the heart more closely. As you shift your understanding of what is possible and go for it, do what people do not expect, you have no reason to give up. Sometimes people seem to stand in your way as if to discourage you. Take note of who does this, how it makes you feel. Do not allow them to hide you from your larger self. Remind yourself these are projections of your shadow. As you make the shadow conscious, self-defeating patterns no longer control you. You laugh at your genius.
5. Align with your Soul
Although we may identify what it is that nurtures and energizes us inside, we are often conditioned to talk ourselves out of things. It can seem hard to take the steps necessary to be true to yourself, listen to intuition. To live in harmony and inner peace, your thoughts, beliefs and actions all align. As you grow aware of how you hold yourself back, it hits you can retrain the mind. Affirmations, mantras, meditations and other techniques assist you to feel what it is to be authentic. Then, step back from what you are doing, and recognize how authentic you feel where you are. You know better than anyone how you feel. Be brave: listen, act on the heart.
6. Connection
Sometimes blood relatives support and encourage us in our heartfelt pursuits. Other times, they discourage us, do not understand ius or, cannot relate to our motivation. We each choose who to listen to or ignore. Edna Buchanan echoes: Friends are the family we choose for ourselves. Most of us know what discomfort or restlessness feels like. It is part of our journey to grow more discerning of external opinion in relation to our own intuition. We choose role models and mentors. Be like Alice from Alice in Wonderland, who says, Sometimes I believe in as many as 6 impossible things before breakfast! (See Transform your Life: 730 Inspirations) Maybe nobody has done what you dream? Who inspires you to connect with yoruself and the world in ways nobody has done before?
7. Build confidence
Some where along the journey, we come to believe we are inadequate or do not have what it takes to realize our true potential. On some level, this invites yo uto get in touch with the undelrying reasons for your fears so you can access more of your own innate fearlessness. Identify events, experiences, conditions that ingrained your fear. Where do you recall becoming a coward? Make this conscious and change the energy.
8. Deal with fear of success
Deep down, you may fear people may be jealous of you if you realize dreams. You may already have examples of where those you encounter do their best to criticize you and tear you down. This draws attention to issues of self-worth, superiority and inferiority and the underlying fear of vulnerability. Now is the moment to get in touch with yoru shadows on a whole new level.
9. Be congruent
Incongruence is allowing yourself to live and act based on fear. Congruence is acting based on love. As you act from a place of love, you grow aware of a Soul purpose. Act from this place, and what you offer the world is service-oriented rather than (ego) self-serving. You trust yourself more deeply and people and opportunities in the world naturally show up. Synchronicities are easier to see. As you grow aware of unconscious blocks and clear up what is out-of-alignment in your life, your evolving vision can manifest with much more ease. You understand the energy flow behind change and dreams happen/ manifest quicker.
10. Follow intuition
You may find yourself intuitively drawn to focus time and energy into endeavours that do not make conventional business sense, but resonate and strike you as something that is part of a larger picture or transformation. You may also feel criticized for listening to your heart and not following the status quo. You may feel called to download or share what feels daunting to you. Freedom means feeling hiow you want to feel and knowing it feels perfect. It means wearing what you want to wear, expressing what means the most without fear of persecution, punishment or repercussions. Sometimes followign dreams, leads us to leave country of birth, entourage or environment to a more suitable place to allow freedom of self expressions. This is a reminder that what and who you need always comes to you. Its up to you to take the next step.
11. Exercise the imagination
Notice the imagination has no boundaries but those you choose to create. You may brainstorm or free draw that which comes to you about yourself. Have no preconceived ideas of the meaning. Allow that to arise within you later. Notice Thomas Edicon was inspired by something to create the lightbulb. he nearly flunked out of primary school and was repeatedly told he was stupid before later being called a genius. Some people believe Alexander Graham bell downloaded the idea for the telephone from the ethers in a dream. It takes courage to stand up for what you feel is right. Yet, if you do not believe in yourself, why would anyoen else?
12. Do the unthinkable
Seize this moment to design the world you imagine existing in. Go further than simply thinking up a career change, new relationships or environments that match ego desires. Challenge yourself to re-imagine the world from the inside out. Imagine no karma. What is unfolding as you are Mastering Time? The building blocks are love and compassion rather than fear and anger. Go further than simply being the conductor of the Sunrise and Sunset like in The Phantom Tollbooth by Norton Juster. As co-creator, all is possible.
The power of the universe will come to your assistance if your heart and mind are in unity. -White Buffalo Cat Woman
Friday, March 18, 2022 at 7:01AM 
Notice what happens as you stop valuing your own beliefs. As you start to see them for what they are, you see them as empty of all meaning, value and ultimate Truth. This is part of letting go. Who would you be without a particular belief or more than one? Nothing. Even when you know you are Nothing, part of you may still be convinced the world needs something you [Ego can] offer. If you shift to have a deep belief of holding no beliefs, this is simply a way to mobilize "you." If you conceptualize, it disempowers and disengages you- you may imagine nothing to do, nowhere to go, nothing to be-a kind of lifelessness. This is what the mind imagines because it cannot imagine what is beyond it. To follow a natural process is to find a response to life that is undivided but non-reactive. Letting go of points of view implies you have no idea what life will do with you. Ego does not believe life can take care of itself. As you realize it then you are empowered because the emptying out process is energizing. You feel lighter, like when decluttering a drawer, a larger space or life. When we look into awakeness itself, this is being, free from fixation, from points of view, self-images, beliefs. This is what freedom means- the more empty we are, the more freedom we have to move and function or flow. To have a fixation causes you to go into reaction instead of a response. One arises from a place of wholeness or peace. This is when natural state is operational. As you come out of a mediation and find you respond peacefully to something you reacted to previously, then it dawns you connect with who you are, the undivided self. Notice where your humanity is engaged, when fear is triggered, the divided self reacts to what it does not want. To try to get rid of your Ego is to try to get rid of your shadow. It cannot happen. We cannot outrun the shadow (a shadow activity itself). The Truth simply notices the shadow and continues to flow as it always has.