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Entries in anger (22)

Sunday
Aug102025

Review 7 Levels of Energy

As you explore the brief description of seven energy levels,  reflect on how each one feels. Energy can vary across different areas of our lives—while you might find Level 1 or 2 to be prominent in one life area, you may discover that Level 4 or 5 prevails in another. 

Imagine no “good” or “bad” levels exist. All levels are widely experienced. The key is to realize you can consciously choose a level with intention rather than revert to unconscious habits.  Our inner landscapes are complex, so understanding the nuances of our energy guides us to make choices that align with our optimum functioning.

Level 1:

At this level, people often feel powerless and believe that external circumstances control their lives. (i.e. fear, worry, and self-doubt).

Level 2:

This level is marked by conflict, competition, and a focus on control. People operating at this level tend to see the world through a binary lens, significantly limiting their available options. 

Level 3:

At this Level, logic and reasoning stand out. People at this level may suppress their emotions and rely heavily on coping patterns for self-protection, sometimes at the expense of their emotional well-being.

Level 4: 

At this Level, people have an abundance of compassion and focus on serving others, although sometimes to extremes (i.e. people pleasing). They foster collaboration, teamwork, and loyalty.

Level 5: 

At this Level, people are optimistic, see opportunity everywhere. They seek win-win solutions and are often cool, calm, and collected. 

Level 6:

At this Level, one feels a deep sense of connection with everyone and everything, know every experience is an equal opportunity to feel satisfaction and joy. 

Level 7:

This Level represents non-judgment, fearlessness, and unconditional love, resulting in profound wisdom and unity with the universe. It's often associated with spiritual awakening and enlightenment, where people feel deeply connected to their true selves and external worlds.

To expand your insight, let's reflect on Levels of Energy and explore how each unique level can show up inside in a specific situation.

Scenario: Your Get a Last-Minute Project with Quick Deadline-How do you respond?

  • Level 1: Victim Energy (“Why me?”)
  • Level 2: Anger Energy (“Are you serious?!”)
  • Level 3: Coping Energy (“This is just the way it is.”)
  • Level 4: Care Energy (“How can I help?”)
  • Level 5: Solution-focused Energy (“How can I make this a win-win?”)
  • Level 6: Connection Energy (“We’re in this together. I trust the process.”)
  • Level 7: Bliss Energy (“I am creator, experiencer, and observer of the work.”)

As we we review these 7 Levels of Energy, note that we each have the ability to recognize and understand the different energy levels at play within us and the skill to consciously shift between them. This awareness is an invaluable tool for navigating life with intention. 

If it resonates, connect with us to explore how we can assist you on your journey.  Recall what it is to tune in more consistently to soul guidance and focus on whole hearted living.  You may believe in randomness,  coincidence or come to  tune into synchroncity. Know its up to you to decide where to from here.  Energy is listening.

Monday
Apr012024

The Wisdom of Presence

Notice where anger exists, pain or hurt lingers underneath. To be aware of this implies we no longer completely identify with it. If impatience arises, if we focus on or get worked up, overwhelmed about the next series of things, we are lost in continuous doing. Stress is the sense of feeling lost between now and later. Its common to feel lost in this gap in time or space. This dysfunction is amplified by technology which conditions people to focus on the illusion of "then." If we get uncentred, we get lost in thinking which underlies doing. This means we are lost in thought. Many thoughts hijack our attention to deny, devalue, disregard, reduce the present moment to a means to an end. How often are we taught the present moment is an obstacle to overcome? This revelation is a stepping stone to being here now- transcendence.

Tuesday
Sep202022

Navigate through what arises

Notice anger and discontent arise. Yet, conditioning teaches us to fear expressing truth, to resist sharing feelings, and to believe expressing anything other than calmness or happiness is bad or wrong. Even within yoga or spiritual circles, emotions that don’t echo only peace, love, gratitude, and joy are often judged as out of place.
Truth is, dishonesty about the ups and downs of life is insincerity. To say one thing directly and yet, express different feelings behind the scenes, suggests what we think, say and feel are incongruent.
Inner well-being comes from the connection and harmony between our inner life and the outer world. As we live from soul, our thoughts, feelings and action naturally align. When something does not feel right, imbalance plays out in our lives to guide us in new directions.
Assuming we must always be happy may misinterpret the sutras, yamas, and niyamas. After all, true transformation involves bringing discomfort to the surface, being honest with ourselves as part of accepting and integrating everything. This is the path to embody wholeness. Each instance we are not open with others, tells us we are not open and honest with ourselves in ways we do not yet recognize. This process of opening the heart to cracks is necessary to guide one into the vibration of true peace and contentment.
Why is it that we tend to overlook mental-emotional afflictions? How is it helpful to run from ourselves? We can only do so for so long. Our emotions or instincts arise as our buttons are being pushed, causing a negative reaction instead of a positive action. It brings us face-to-face with another side of duality before going beyond.
Triggers invite us to face our shadows, to let go of harmful behavioral patterns. Through the lens of svadhyaya, or self-study, we can see shortcomings otherwise invisible to us. The journey inward is a way to dismantle why we react to certain people and ideas, and it helps us explore new directions.
Yoga is about raising awareness. As we grow more aware of our humanity, we naturally feel more comfortable expressing it. Maybe we get angry, frustrated, or upset sometimes because we practice something that stretches us to new levels of awareness and acceptance of who we are. What enters our scope of experience is always the perfect tool to navigate what arises to guide soul growth. We are like invisible air that takes shape through wind, moving clouds and swaying trees and then, blows away.

 

Saturday
Dec252021

See beyond the Intolerable 

Notice healthy transcendence is neither a flight nor severing nor disconnection from lower 'uncomfortable' things and qualities. Rather, its a going beyond that does not exclude them. It is a kind of innate, receiving, decoding and streamlining of energy. As situations or feelings grow more noticable and/or intolerable, it dawns the urge to escape does not always serve us. Radical inclusion enables our expansion both horizontally and vertically, to integrate a certain quality while at the same time, not identifying with it. Its about seeing value in what was resisted or initially disregarded. This is the art of separation and simultaneous connection. Both coexist and function in divine resonance. A journey to accepting and activating all facets of True Being involves recognizing and working through all we are conditioned to judge and push away. Denial or suppression of anger is common. Anger that arises invites engaging in that angry part of ourself. Its about being inclusive, allowing energy to flow without allowing it to overcome us. To deny intense or difficult feelings prevents creating an in-depth relationship with them, keeps us fragmented and unable to embody genuine wholeness. Instead, staying close to what is being transcended allows us to know it well, and stay just far enough away to see it clearly, to bring it into lucid focus. Transcending certain energies does not mean we know longer experience them. We simply energetically reposition it within rather than identify with or get triggered by it. This is a powerful insight that triggers shifts into expanding consciousness. Stay focused on this Road to self-mastery. Awarness allows calm abiding.

Thursday
Dec232021

Grow beyond blind compassion 

(Image: Sacred geometry 792 by Endre Balogh)

Notice the importance of allowing all things to serve our awakening. When we are offended by behaviour or actions, if we are always completely non-judgemental, or at least, resist expressing true feelings or saying anything that could be seen as judgemental, we may be doing a disservice to ourselves and those who offend us. For, in not doing what we can to bring people face-to-face with the consequences of their actions, we are actually depriving them of Soul growth. Further, in letting them off the hook, we are doing the same for ourselves. As an analogy, by not allowing a butterfly to struggle its own way out of a coccoon, it emerges weak. Metamophosis is supposed to be difficult to build resilience, trust, discernment. Butterflies need a surface they can climb and hang from so their wings can expand properly. This is why they emerge in phases, building strength, confidence, energy at every stage. Similarly, certain kinds of compassion may hide misguided tolerance and aversion to confrontation, as well as avoidance of pain and anger that exist to facilitate human Soul growth. Although its helpful to examine how judgement of others can reflect our own shadows or invite us to self-examine, build our discernment a focus on self alone is misguided. Blind compassion for others can arise as a tool of survival learned during childhood. Recognizing our own patterns and changing our behaviour not only empowers us, but also nudges others to do what they exist to do. To cut to the chase, at some point, we would have to not only feel the pain of what we suffered but also feel its consequences later in life, and many of us resist that, even when we see value in doing so. At the perfect moment, it dawns that suppressing the hurt we were suffering often made things worse. Being solely compassionate about behaviour that evokes discomfort keeps us 'safely' removed both from standing up for ourselves and the consequences. Yet, if we do not russle feathers, make a fuss or contront anyone, it robs us of our autonomy and accountability, implying we do not have a choice when we do. To confront someone with fierce compassion (express true emotions) has another impact. If we hurry too fast to forgive, we skip the process that leads to authentic forgiveness, feeling our hurt, expressing our needs and navigating conflict. As we shed our blinders and see our pain clearly, our anger, hurt, frustration, moral outrage, we re-enter a realm of love that had been closed off from which we can now freely give and receive. As we welcome struggles and challenges, strive for nobel and lofty goals, we are connecting and expanding our Soul in ways beyond the wildest imagination