Master diplomacy

Diplomacy is often viewed as a useful skill in negotiations and handling people. You may understand diplomacy as figuring out the right words to say at the right time in the way that is least offensive to another person's beliefs or ways of seeing the world.  As you come to think there could be more to diplomacy than the obvious, then what?

Reflect on your use of tact in interactions. How and what do you withhold or hide? What is transparent and to whom? Explore the nature of your own communication through, to and by you.  Be clearer about vibration, how it shapes what's really going on in your life.  There is nothing you cannot know or be when you trust fully.

What if you could:

*stop second-guessing yourself when it counts? 

*master diplomacy in a whole new way? 

*intuit exceptions to a given rule and see underlying reasons for rules themselves? 

*see you create ideas of 'right' and 'wrong' that help and hinder you? 

*feel good and love life regardless of unfolding life situations?

Be aware signs all around you exist to guide you to master self-confidence and tap into talents and wisdom  you forget is inside.  Come to view inspirational mentors themselves as stepping stones to gaining new insight into yourself and living more fully. Imagine your ideas of right and wrong change based on where you are not for reasons you think, but based on how you feel.  Imagine certain life experience makes you feel as though you get NOWHERE... this is why you are NOW- HERE. Explore where your actions support your intention or not. Create powerful shifts in behaviour.

Comments

[Kyle Tyack]

I agree that diplomacy is important on how we deal with people. I believe we can live more harmoniously with those around us.

[Liara Covert]

Kyle, appreciate your comments. Diplomacy is one means used to keep the peace while conveying different versions of the same story to different people. A boy may tell his best buddy a version of his date, his parents another version, his sister and grandmother different versions again. You can affirm 'may all my relationships be juicy, fabulous, loving and fulfilling in their own way.' This is a state of being.

All-the-while, One Eternal Indivisible Being is forever manifested in harmony. It is not at all easy to detect this Presence, because He interpenetrates everything. This is the silent, omni-present diplomat. It is the mirror of the true authentic being.

[bern]

Mastering Diplomacy can also be looked at as the letting go of the diplomatic and the idea of negotiating peace treaties by following rules or guidelines. Rules are made by rulers or straight line edges which focuses peoples attentions into linear places of thinking where they would not innately gravitate towards. In a sense, a picture or collage of reality is painted by those who have seized power and those who are diplomats try to say look.... you both are or we are right here in this framework.... we are the same because if we follow these lines and these rules and this energy stream... we are part of the same picture which is set in stone and which is slowly eroded from and slowly repaired and added to. We are One then.

However, in Utopia, the overall picture or framework of reality is not created by those in power or by the prevailing culture. The overall picture is like thousands of Starlings moving in unison as if they were pulsating and following waves of energy. Each Starling or Each Person or rather Each Connected Soul becomes an enlivened and living Pixel of colour in an overall moving and morphing picture. They are an individual but contribute to the beauty of the whole movement. There then is no contriving to pool peoples attentions into one place or to have people memorize the same scripted story which would then take the souls pixelation capabilities away from them.

So In This Reality... there then is no diplomacy. If one pixel is attracted to another pixel across the canvass...... the two pull at each other which then changes the shape of the picture and the perceived direction and movement of the collective. It is not scripted but is then orchestrated by something greater ... but where one's attention goes is always felt as a smooth transition without edges. Yes Utopia is Here Now and Has Never Left. Feel It and It Is So. :)

The idea of telling people different stories or versions of the truth can be seen also as more truthful than telling the same story to everyone. If the story morphs, one is living in or occupying a different frequency band with a different vibration as they see through time. So with each person that they connect with they then have a different scenic view of what had happened in relationship to where they are now in connection to another. They use words or symbols that will fit into the others paradigm where something can be gleaned or where something of essence is transferred.

One could say they are being diplomatic when they are guiding or moving the person into another frame of mind.... but diplomacy is then mastered and let go of when one can simply read the others mind and insert the information or juicy tidbits that one is calling out for to receive. If the mind is read and nothing is highlighted for sharing.... there is then no reason to convey any directed energy or story at all. The event is accepted beyond words or need for integration... since the energy is already incorporated..... or because it is so foreign as to be invisible to them.

[Liara Covert]

Bern, like everything else, diplomacy is a pointer. How you interact with others and what they reflect back reveals to what degree you love and accept yourself fully. At any given moment, if you feel you have something to prove or defend, then you are allowing yourself to be guided by ego and pride. Even the frustration that arises is a pointer to what you are not doing: being true and authentic to you.

Traditional diplomacy is based on the assumption that separate parties, nations, and people actually exist, and that self-interest and competition are what sustains you. From the moment you see through illusions of separation, and you recognize love, acceptance and inter-connectedness are the truth, diplomacy takes another turn. You are only talking with alter egos. As "me", "myself" and "I" merge and disappear, one being is only ever responsible and accountable to itself. This one being does everything to itself for the purpose of its own growth. I AM THAT.