What does success feel like?

The external world invites us to adopt different visions of success and fulfillment.  Ever notice what drives or motivates you at different stages and seasons of your life? You might respond by describing a particular object you dream of, an envisioned experience, a set of conditions or outcome. But does success always have to be out of reach? What is the deeper message?

Consider the analogy of a young person who just gets a driver's license.  This person is eager and often has a heavy foot, as if always speeding to get somewhere.  You may encounter drivers who appear impatient, are always looking ahead, but never at you, never here, in this moment.  You may begin to see this as a mirror of yourself.  Why chase after success in the future?

Observe what happens as you notice the slower drivers that are no longer in a rush. What happens to stress, anxiety and intense emotions? What are you willing to notice and outgrow? How do you view slower driving behaviour in light of your sense of success? Does speed matter?

Notice what happens as you accept yourself fully. Any pursuit loses significance.  Notice how it feels to savour every moment, and to be aware of why you view success in different ways. Watch the impact of a simple shift of attention. Thoughts and emotions point to what mind does not want you to see. Recognize what you fear/ cling to, what you run from and who you truly are.

"You have reached the pinnacle of success as soon as you become uninterested in money, compliments, or publicity." -Thomas Wolfe

Comments

[soulMerlin]

Yes..I understand this one!!

Love
Henry

ps: And a very Merry Christmas!!

[Liara Covert]

Henry, to be connected wo what truly matters is a priceless gift. Peace on Earth and goodwill toward everyone is all you experience. May you continue to savour this moment. Happy holidays.

[Hilary]

Hi Liara .. certainly I realised there was no rush - and that made life easier ... and allowed things to slot into place - all in good time. I don't think I'm near the pinnacle of success - but the concept of being uninterested in compliments, money or publicity is appealing .. and I'm sure I'm on that path. Thanks - Hilary

[Liara Covert]

Hilary, everything is in the realm of possibility unless the mind convinces you otherwise. What appeals to you (or not) at a given moment is itself sending you a message about how you feel about true self.