What does a mirror tell you?
There was once a monk who would carry a mirror where ever he went. This action drew the attention of a particular priest who grew convinced the monk must be misguided.
A priest noticed this repeatedly and thought to himself, "This monk is so preoccupied with the way he looks he has to carry that mirror all the time. He should not worry about the way he looks on the outside, it's what's inside that counts." The priest felt it made sense to take steps to guide the monk to the light.
So, the priest went up to the monk and asked "Why do you always carry that mirror?" The priest thought for sure the monk's response would reveal misplaced ego and guilt.
The monk pulled the mirror from his bag and pointed it at the priest. Then he said, "I use it in times of trouble. I look into it and it shows me the source of my problems as well as the solution to my problems."
What does a mirror tell you?
"All men should strive to learn before they die what they are running from, and to, and why."
-James Thurber
Reader Comments (14)
The mirror shows the real me...good and bad. The thing is - can I look in it honestly? Can I let the image I see from it be true and real? Or do I let my own self interests put a veil over the mirror? Hmmm....
Up here in Canada, my sister likes your "Self Disclosure" book so much I'm giving it to her. And of course I'll have to buy me another copy because it is a wonderful, wonderful book and a real keeper to be read, and read again as layers of love unfold.
I love this story, though --- great way to illustrate the point that everything in this life starts and ends with us; or rather our perceptions of things.
I'm currently having a great experience in mirroring. I have been hired by a family to tutor their daughter in math. The first time I went to their house I felt fear so strongly. I spoke to a friend of mine about it and she helped me to understand that their family is a mirror of my own family. I have been given an opportunity to heal my inner child by helping another child. It's a very amazing experience.
xh