Notice your underlying state while making decisions. Pause for a moment. Reflect. You cannot rely on someone else's word for it or on mere logical deduction. Look closer. Note what you see and feel differs from what you think. Do you come from a place of 'Fear' or a place of 'LOVE'?
Five ways to come from a place of love:
1) Let go of negative thinking- stop complaining
2) Refrain from judgement about what you are doing
3) Connect with the inner child- when you are born naked and innocent, you have nothing to go on but direct experience.
4) Feel with the heart- intuition is a powerful tool.
5) Trust heartfelt decisions are made with love and are the right decisions for you.
How would it feel to live a life without fear? How would you feel if love was your primary consideration and helped guide your life choices? What would be different? Who would you be with? Where would you live? What would you be doing? Ponder the possibilities.