Interview with destiny

Wouldn't it be nice to converse one-on-one with destiny? These questions are an invitation to grow aware of what is driving you: the logical mind, feeling heart or some combination.  Do you self-question and hear no response? Imagine the future or more authentic version of yourself is eager to answer and finally more audible than ever before. 

Q: Peers have big changes happening in their lives. I feel stagnant, stuck. Am I lost or, is there something wrong with me if I am unaware of similar shifts in my life?

Notice comparison is self-judgement or lack of self-acceptance. To sense or focus on what is not happening takes attention away from noticing and thriving on what is. Everyone is on a unique path to seeing and accepting their own greatness and innate genius. Each at his/her own pace.  

Q: Okay, I have the vision. How do to make it happen?

The what is the creative role of the mind and comes before the how. Ego thinks it controls the what, the how and when. Another voice echoes dream-making and dream-finding is an exercise in give and take between the heart- mind.  To assume separation has you think you must force things. Do you think you never do enough? That you are not enough? Just as you cannot force love to happen, you cannot force visions. Surrender guides you into the flow. Similarly, you do not really bake but allow it to rise based on right conditions and what is out of your control.

Q: So, I feel silly talking about my dream. It sounds crazy!  What do I do?

Who or what feels silly or crazy? The ego. Why? Ask yourself what threatens the ego. Focus on the heartfelt version of you that gets excited about the vision and does not doubt or fear. It knows all is said and done.  Keep adding detail to the vision. Where are you? What are you doing? How do people feel around you? Know and feel that its all real and happening. Write it down. Share your enthusiasm. It rubs off! Remember-watch your thoughts: you catch up with what you believe.  Watch your words: your reality emerges from all you express.  Observe your experience: are you living the dream or do your thoughts, beliefs and self-expression echo obstacles exist between you and dreams? What are you choosing to perpetuate: love and harmony in thought, word and action or, fear and disharmony?

Q: I feel purpose-driven. Not knowing my destiny worries me...

Purpose changes at different perceived life stages.  To create an ego identity, you adopt labels and life roles.  Ask yourself to grow aware of who these labels appease. Who holds expectations? Everything mirrors you. Language and behaviour reveal how you feel about yourself. You cannot escape the truth but you can hide for as long as you choose.

Q: Which emotions are safe to feel?

Self-love is reflected in the energy of excitment, belief in yourself, knowing that dreams are realized. Self-doubt, self-hate, self-loathing focus your vitality in self-defeating or self-sabotaging directions.  Although its valuable to recognize and feel all emotions, and explore triggers for the purpose of healing, where you focus attention shapes your experience.  Imagine what a simple change in self perception does. Destiny is not about what you do but who you are, and the degree you accept this in all you present to the world.

Q: When does a person stop seeking destiny?

You decide exactly when seeking stops.  When you stop focusing so much on job-seeking, the perfect opportunities mysteriously find you.  The right person, place or whatever you used to be looking for comes along or presents itself in unexpected ways.  This is about seeing yourself and realting or connecting to everything differently. Its a difference you feel.

Q: What can I do to be more authentic? 

Authenticity is about listening. When you are open to learning more about yourself and why you think and feel as you do, intuition grows louder. It is ever-present, but often overlooked or simply unheard.  Detecting vibes of the heart-mind allows you to notice more synchronicities.  Its up to you what to notice, how to feel and when to act. The flow does not give you the outcome the ego wants; it will not make things necessarily easy for you.  It does not give you what you want but what the soul needs to grow and blossom.

Q: What is intuition exactly? 

Intuition is the language of the Soul. Like any language, one can tune in, block out, forget, remember, learn or unlearn signs and symbols.  They are created and decoded by you.  Imagine yourself as a code-breaker, extraordinary detective, and also one or knows your life vision. You simply join the dots you choose to see. 

3 Tips to Live a more congruent life

Notice what happens when you focus energy and attention on uncovering your purpose.  You may be surprised to remember that this evolves with you and changes at different life stages. Reflect on these three tips to live a more congruent life;

1. Be present

The more you are present to your emotional reactions and other responses to life’s experiences, the more intimately you get-to-know yourself.  The deeper and more conscious your relationship with yourself, the more congruent you’ll be able to live your life in ways that feel fulfilling.  Your life’s value, is not based on an arbitrary number in your bank account, but rather, on the experiences you live and the time you devote to being fully conscious during those experiences.

2. Listen to intuition

Intuition is the language of the soul. True listening is about tuning in to this frequency, being aware of what sparks your curiosity and interest, jumping on opportunities that present and knowing everything you choose to notice is itself a sychronicity or stepping stone to more joy. 

3. Pay attention to relationships

Every encounter, friendship and longer relationship is a soundboard for your own authenticity. People show up on your radar, come and go in your life, to help you see and better understand yourself. Congruency inspires congruency and vice versa. Notice who do you spend the most time with. How are they empowering or disempowering you? Do they inspire you to be true to you?

The key to living a fulfilling life is being congruent with your Soul purpose. - Liara Covert

9 Ways to get closer to Truth

Many people are seeking threir version of the truth.  The common belief is that the truth cannot be where you are or related to what you think you are doing. Yet the Truth is widely sought as a pointer to peace of mind, the end of restlessness and it cannot be explained in words.  In this way, its easier to say what the truth is not.  Reflecvt on these 9 ways to get closer to the Truth:

1. Intuit the truth is not based on beliefs

A group of people can agree and form a conspiracy based on false beliefs where they all agree to tell the same false story, but it does not make their assumption true.

2. Realize the Truth does not have to be uplifting

A sense of adversity, trauma or tragedy can also be valid.

3. Accept the Truth is not necessarily based on views of majority

Fifty-one percent or more of a group can be brainwashed, conditioned to reach a wrong conclusion.

 4. Grasp the Truth cannot be understood in the mind

A lengthy, detailed presentation can still result in a false conclusion.

 5. Recognize the Truth is not defined by intention

Intentions are expressions of the mind and can be wrong.

6. Sense that Truth is not how we know

Truth is not an opinion but a knowing of what we feel.

7. Get that Truth is not simply a possibility

Truth is not something to contemplate. Its felt beyond shadow of a doubt

8. Discern the Truth is not externally- provable

A truth can be privately known (an internal revelation that cannot be shared in words)

 9. Truth is not something that changes  

Lies can appear static but they are still lies and not the truth.

The key to everything

It is often overlooked or forgotten that the key to everything: love, fulfillment, remembering, is healing the relationship with yourself.  Your life purpose, Soul-orientation, the state of your health and well-being, and level of energy all arise as a natural extension of your own clarity. 

When emotional or other energy is blocked, your purpose and ability to manifest it in this lifetime is blocked.  The key to everything is how well you know yourself, uncover, purify, and release core beliefs in practice. Now is the perfect moment to make what drives you and holds you back conscious.  When you are ready to dig deep, rediscover priceless gold, take a leap of faith.  Trust your intuition and contact us about how we can guide you to empower yourself.

"You weren't born a person of cringe and contraction.  You were born as energy, as life, made of the same stuff as the stars, blossoms, breezes.  You learned contraction to survive, but that was then." -Anne Lamotte

5 Keys to Intuitive decision-making

Intuition is receiving inspiration and guidance from outside yourself.  Your greatest source of creativity is accessed when you tune into something beyond you, lose yourself in the joy and fulfillment of an activity.  This is like becoming one with it, dissolving the illusion of separation.

Most of us are familliar with intuitive decisions in our daily life.  Yet, we do not really think about it.  Typical examples where intuition can play an important role in making decisions are: Choosing your life partner, selecting the right car or home to buy, where and when to move, which job, education or training to follow, deciding on a meal when eating out, selecting the next book to read or movie to watch, picking clothes to wear, or how to approach a stranger or function in unfamilliar places.

Making all or most decisions based on intuition is less common, at least in the Western World. Here are 5 keys to making intuitive decision-making a more conscious part of your life:

1. Recognize intuitive decision making is far more than using common sense

This involves engaging additional sensors to perceive and tune into the information outside yourself. Sometimes it is referred to as gut feeling, sixth sense, inner sense, instinct, inner voice, spiritual guide, etc.

2. Develop higher consciousness 

It is possible to train the subtle senses to recognize intuitive information.  You can train these sensors and to make the process of receiving information intuitively a more conscious one. People who can't accept the existence of such sensors may instead call it tapping into "collective intelligence" or "collective unconscious".  How effectively you function based on higher consciousness is often underestimated.

3. See balance between logic and intuition

The question cannot be whether rational reasoning or intuitive decision making is generally better. The question is rather in each individual case how both approaches can be best combined for optimal results. For this purpose, an experienced consultant from outside can often help to avoid common mistakes and to dissolve prejudices.

4. Feel (rather than think) the way through life

The more you trust intuition, the more often you act based on what you feel. Intuition, when functionning at its highest level, involves conscious contact with non-incarnated beings, a process usually called channelling. It can also be controlled, as in, you can consciously tune in and out of different frequencies of  information as the perceived need or usefulness arises.The more you trust intuition, the more the universe gives you reason to trust. 

5.  Consult an intuitive mentor

Recall the five peple you spend the most time with are the five people whose patterns and behaviours you are evolving into. You are also honing abilities of those who inspire you. You are literally drawing the qualities you admire in others out of yourself to manifest them in your life. The world is constructed in you mind and projected outward based on concepts. This learning process of concepts can block the flow of intuition and make it harder to live based on heartfelt guidance. It is very useful to evolve to accept help and assistance from the spiritual world. Enagaging an intuitive outside yourself can assist you to grow aware of the intuitive within yourself.  Thus it grows easire to see through your beliefs and patterns so you are empowered to live more intuitively from within