Notice the flawed premise
Listen closely. Notice what you tell yourself. Notice when you assume conflict exists within your own mind or you see conflict arises as the result of lies you tell yourself. The truth never opposes itself. It just is. Notice how you feel around different people. What happens when being in someone's presence brings out the best in you?
The larger part of you, the source energy consciousness, knows what is going on. That part of you feels its way into states of continued renewal. It knows how honest you are with yourself, is reflected in every situation and relationship. If you only ever feel good, you do not notice an emotional gap, and life does not cause you to expand.
Notice thoughts and beliefs you hold prevent you from allowing and being the joy that is unlimited. Where are you in vibrational relationship to unconditional love and acceptance of all you are? Notice the power of influence you have over your thoughts and feelings. Notice how people feel in your presence and whether you notice anyone at all. Notice othes are inspired and uplifted, or they express negativity and bring you down. Notice how you feel deep inside reveals itself in your external world.
In essence, the vibrating energy that you are raises and lowers based on whether you allow what you perceive though mental filters to affect how you feel. Approach reality based on pure appreciation or not. You control how you respond to whatever unfolds. See what happens as you begin to see everything through the eyes of genuine love. Flawed premises are no longer. This is no coincidence. Its Cosmic Synchronicity.