What is the secret of attraction?

Contrary to popular belief, the secret of attraction cannot be learned.  Still, the idea of this natural force is something humans seek to harness and control. Many people assume its something you can pursue or have and wield like  magical power to turns heads.  Yet, if not that, you may ask what is it that actually influences what and whom you attract?

You may be surprised to hear that the source of your assumed animal magnetism is not what you think.  Sexual prowess relates to confidence, and appreciation of the physical body, but there's more.  Beneath the surface, attraction is an energetic force.  You allow yourself to feel it through acceptance and being aware of something deeper.  Its about raising awareness of a soul connection.

In essence, the source of true power of attraction is to tap into existing mental clarity.  That's right! This is about seeing through what ego tells you attraction is and focusing all faculties and skills to manifest the purpose known deep in the soul.  You know when you are in the presence of someone who lives in the now.  You feel peace and contentment of the universe without doing anything. Be the divine force inherent in us all.

"The secret of attraction is to love yourself. Attractive people judge neither themselves nor others. They are open to gestures of love. They think about love, and express their love in every action. They know that love is not a mere sentiment, but the ultimate truth at the heart of the universe." -Deepak Chopra 

Reassure yourself

Sometimes, if stress and discomfort build, you may start to feel frustrated or even overwhelmed.  The mind may have you believe you are not in the right place, not doing the right thing.  Many people ask me how to stop overthinking.  When the inner judge captures your attention, questions that arise can trigger emotions at a furious pace. Use mental strategies or learn  to do nothing.  Notice what happens as you retrain the mind and decide everything is always going well.

Rest assured, you are always on the right track.  Everything you think and feel is always conveying messages about what is helping you or hindering you be true to yourself.  Every thought and choice is guiding you.  So when teach question arises, "do I or don't I listen?"  Sharpening your listening skills is a way to be more attentive to what matters to your soul. Listening to your vibes is always in your interest.  Do what you can to sharpen the senses.

"Confidence comes not from always being right but from not fearing to be wrong."
-Peter T. Mcintyre

Know all doors are open

As you choose to experience existence through the lens of soul, suddenly, every door is always open.  The essence of being is pure awarenes and it passes through all doorways unobstructed. The mind creates a sense of obstacles, imagines barricades and percives reasons for closed doors.  Notice the perspective you adopt or the assumptions you are prompted to make.  What does this tell you?

To sense awareness is selective or fragmented is only temporary.  To identify and perceive separation is part of the journey that invites you to see reflections of divine being in everything. Know every belief resists something and offers clues to what and why.  Stop seeking. Turn inward.  Be the answer that never leaves home except for a temporary change of scenery.  Feel the swinging or rotating door now.

"You cannnot look for awareness.  You can only be awareness." - Ram Dass

Be more aware

Notice the diverse perspectives available to be experienced and among them, that of the silent observer within.  It offers a soulful view on everything.  What does it feel like to be aware of its presence? How does your life perception shift as you step back and view things from different vantage points?Notice power in being open and receptive.

BE aware every choice, perception and state of being all serve higher consciousness. The mind does not have to explain or understand for soul to know and be what is.

"There can be no knowledge without emotion.  We may be aware of a truth, yet until we have felt its force, it is not ours.  The cognition of the brain must be added to the experience of the soul." -Arnold Bennett

Appreciate your own presence

Brace yourself. Everything is you.  There is no space as mind would have you believe. You are in process of altering your perception of reality this very second. Stop taking notice of anything except you. Something is catching up.  It is beyond the rational mind.

Notice how certain activities and priorities are falling away and disappearing from your focus of attention. Notice how certain relationships are shifting. Some you outgrow and move on from and others arise with perfect timing. Notice how you are gaining confidence dealing with the unknown, feel comfortable in unpredictability and only know improvisation.  You never look or feel this world in the same way. It sparkles!

Logic in your life loses importance. Doing anything as you have before no longer crosses your mind. What beckons has no methods. It has no name. Anything you previously viewed as illogical, unrealistic or impossible is your present focus. The extraordinary is suddenly ordinary. Something whispers to observe and see what comes at you and passes by. What was previously invisible or unknown to you reveals itself and boggles the mind. See everything as fresh and you create a new reality.

"You are a powerful, unlimited and eternal soul who is here to enjoy the experience of creativity and contribute to humanity's evolution." - Author Unknown