5 Tips to move beyond intimidation

The vast majority of human beings experience something called initimidation. This is often understood as allowing someone in a perceived position of authority to make you feel less than you are. Consider these ideas to move beyond intimidation and outline stepsto get your life back;

1) Recall Eleanor Roosevelt. This former U.S. first lady is known for this gentle reminder: "nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent." As you opt to be taken in, you give away power.  Rest assured, you can also take it back.

2) Learn to see it for what it is. If someone seems to force you into some behaviour, they do not.  You imagine fear to deter yourself for some underlying reason. The person who appears to coerce or threaten you draws to the surface feelings of inadequacy, insecurity and fear. To be willing to inflate someone's ego mirrors what you do to your own. An egoist is more interested in himself than you.

3) Recognize superiority is overrated. Some people would say superiority and inferiority do not exist. From this perspective, they are imagined states of being based on your level of confidence, shyness or brainwashing. These llusions dissolve the moment you stop believing power matters.

4) Transcend the smoke screen. When someone acts to push you around and you allow emotion to control you, you get distracted by a smokescreen. If you are building a business and taking market share, a competitor may be willing to do anything to regain clients.  As you shift focus to servicing clients and satisfying needs, you learn people who voice threats attract negative energy. Dishonesty does not pay.

5) See the homour in it. As you raise awareness, you begin to realize the mind plays tricks to help you learn. You find yourself so fascinating you permit yourself to get wrapped up in illusion. John Bradshaw says, "Ego is to the true self what a flashlight is to a spotlight." How you behave without knowing why becomes funnier as you evolve to sense mind games. It plays hide and seek to remind you the lighter side of existence.

Dissolve your illusions

Analysis of dream submitted by Anonymous in Canada.

Dream- I drive a mini-sports car to the first of five silver doors in row along a long hallway. I am to deliver mail to five women. I slip mail under the first door and it moves, as if inhaling and exhaling. I ride a bicycle to the next door. After pushing mail into a brassy slot I briefly polish, I roller skate to the next door. After leaving mail in a box, I grab a kite fly to the next door.  It is ajar. As I reach around to place the mail inside, a woman asks me what I am doing there. I pull my arm out the door. I calmly float to the last door. I pass through it carrying mail for to me knowing a physical door is illusion.

Predominant Emotions- determination, anticipation, joy, fear, surprise. 

Interpretation-You raise awareness of transitions during a journey to deeper consciousness. Driving vehicles is like taking charge and initiating self-directed learning.  You consciously take responsibility for each stage of your actions. As you make deliberate changes in your vantage point, this recognizes a move toward greater balance and objectivity.

Delivering mail suggests you are attuning to messages from your unconscious. Courage and boldness signal you are ready and willing to receive new information from your inner source. Another way to view this is you slowly reconnect parts of self that had been repressed or blocked out. To reunite fragments of self implies you move from rejection to self-acceptance.

In another way, you sharpen discernment concerning how you understand physical form. People construct ideas in their minds about what they require to live comfortable and fulfilling lives. The evolution of your thinking is empoweirng you to expand your senses and faculties. As you shift your beliefs, your experience confirms how you transcend your own illusions. You no longer need what you thought you would.

Further still, choices you make help to reveal untapped abilities your forgot you had. As you gradually discard mindsets you outgrow, it is like getting closer to who you really are. Rather than depend on external things, you grow to trust yourself more, move through obstacles and align with what matters.

25 Ways to stimulate consciousness

It is no accident that you are alive right now. You move from basic survival mode to a threshold of self-acceptance.  You connect with parts of yourself that have been detached or temporarily forgotten.  Certain things you are rediscovering feel so familiar.  You are slowly remembering how things are.

Do you believe the history you have been told? Part of you is ready to forget everything you have ever been taught. You are in process of uncovering the strategy of harmony and cooperation. You have been given the opportunity to make prfound decisions during upheavals and enormous life changes. Whatever your baseline perspective, reality is expanding and everything that seems normal is changing; 

1) Your mission is to exist now. 

2) Your priorities are changing.

3) Your awareness is expanding exponentially.

4) You discern your energetic being with power and presence.

5) You reprogram your eating and drinking patterns.

6) You realize the truth is not what you thought.

7) You remember you give and receive unconditional love.

8) You know all things happen to help you.

9) You stretch in ways you do not yet register.

10) You sense time and perception are changing.

11) You detect spirit guides and indescribable beings.

12) You choose to let go of outdated ideas.

13) Your suddenly believe things you disbelieved.

14) You rediscover the direction and intent of eternal life.

15) You sense cosmic events occur to heighten sensitivities.

16) You foresee changes in polarity, emotions, and dynamics.

17) You feel rhythm and energy runs through everything.

18) You transcend the mundane to explore creative freedom.

19) You awaken capacities for memory and deeper recognition.

20) You consciously effect evolution beyond the physical.

21) You erase fear and open up to multi-dimensional reality.   

22) You let go of the physical to realize you never left heaven.

23) You review what is required to experience divinity.

24) You think about and absorb everyone you have ever met.

25) You grow to accept physical limits and spiritual perfection.

10 ways to take charge of your life

Many people would like to take more of an active role in defining their destiny. They do not always realize they can do this anytime they choose. You design and revise road maps of choices. Consider these ten ways to take charge of your life;

1) Notice how you think. The subjects you hone in on offer signs about what makes sense to you. Was it someone who drew your attention there? Learn to listen to your core self.

2) Realize thoughts shape feelings. It takes practice to sift throughthoughts andconnect them to how you feel. Even nothing comes from somewhere. Learn to recognize the shape you are in relates directly to what you choose to feel.

3) Decode your fears. As you learn to focus on the present, you begin to sense a new level of mindfulness. It becomes possible to discern the difference between healthy fight-or-flight response to valid threats and unnnecessary worries. Learn to detect and dissolve fearful imaginings that distract.

4) Align focus with intention. If you are unclear where you are or where you are going, it is more difficult tochannel your energy in meaningful ways. Getting to know yourself empowers focus. Realign thoughts and feelings with deliberate intent.

5) Be straight. You may have heard talkers and doers exist. Do you talk directly to people who bother you or avoid confrontations? As you learn to be more honest with yourself, talking comes more easily. Learn the meaning of core honesty.

6) Shift away from complaining. Listen closely.When you speak or write, is your reflex tobelittle or downplay efforts torave with enthusiasm? Negative energy drains your power. Learnall thought and feeling is controlled withdiscipline.

7) Switch from being problem-focused to solutions-oriented. Growing awareness allows you to realize the nature and slant of your perceptions. When your mind wanders to obstacles, you benefit from learning how and when to stop.

8) Recognize all emotions are your friends. Raising consciousness helps you realize that all emotions teach you. As you learn to let go of expectations and labelsfor particular emotions, you realize that each offers you valuable insight.

9) Stop ignoring your physiology. Your body constantly sends you signals about your health and well-being. Your heart rate, level of fatigue, temperature and energy are sample physical messages. When you feel under the weather, this draws attention toareas that require more attention.

10) Release self-defense mechanisms.More often than you realize, your mind goes on the defensive. People will say things and your conditioned impulse will be to correct, toprove your right, and establish some level of superiority. In truth, doing nothing takes charge. Learn to channel energy wisely.

10) Accept you are unaware of all answers. Although its said all answers lie within the self, that does not mean every person accesses all his own inner wisdom all at once. Learning to take charge of your life is a process. As you evolve to keep perspective, you nurture hope and self-acceptance. They empower you to transcend unwanted conditions and mindsets.

6 Ways to re-align what ails you

Many people who feel discomfort or unease do not always realize it translates details of energy states. To consult an energy healer is one way to help uncover and localize some of your core imbalances. Consider these exercises you can do alone to help open your mind and explore some core issues;

1) Heed "ah-ha" moments. A series of events will lead to a moment of realisation. This may trigger a series of painful experiences you had repressed or, other intense emotions selectively disregarded and forgotten. Difficult memories emerge as you admit you are not being true to self. Emotions present as a gauge for you to learn why you generate them.

2) Raise self-awareness. Notice how certain life choices weaken your sense of core foundations, principles and values. Recall a situation where you did not listen to your inner voice. Reminisce of the stress or turbulence that ensued. Feel the energy imbalance. Use this to identify how beliefs formed to justify what you did not wish to do, but did anyway.

3) Realize what you resist. What you think is authentic or real in life progressively dissolves. It may be a condition, job, relationship, whatever clarifies who you believe you are.  As you evolve to recognize which ideas have been instilled, you gradually peel those away to uncover what you resist.

4) Restore faith in yourself.  A shift in awareness can lead to sudden feelings of betrayal and identity crisis. As you begin to grasp how you create and perpetuate illusions, you can choose to replace distorted ideas and initiate self-healing.

5) Build resilience. Some people relate staying power to developing physical endurance. To expand, incorporate psychological and spiritual angles.  Decide to nuture positive thoughts and accept what you cannot change outside yourself. Cumulative effects are incredibly powerful.  As you gain insight into core rhythms and energies, you begin to grasp how the vibration and frequency of your energy body affect how you feel and what you perceive. 

6) Brainstorm harmony. Each person has a sense of what creates and takes away from harmony.  Energy you experience travels in waves, patterns and movements that affect your changing states. Some experiences will seem more challenging.  Yet, those are  the ones that are most enriching.  They invite you to stretch and redefine balance and well-being.  As this process of re-aligning becomes more conscious and deliberate, you sense harmony that defies words.