How to break the vicious cycle

Your current relationships may not be the dream you have in mind. Part of you may not be aware that you have the power to break the vicious cycle of situations.  They exist to awaken you to new ways of thinking, feeling and understanding self. As you ready to make positive changes, consider these tips;

1) Realize you are in the midst of a vicious cycle.  When relationships evoke discomfort, the common thread is you.

2) Cease blaming others for your negative emotions. Learn to grasp root causes and heal triggers of these signals. 

3) Take responsibility.  If dialogue, commitment, or compromise do not come easily, what does it tell you about hidden fear? How can you reframe everything for the better?

4) Use patterns as a guide for self-acceptance.  If you focus on appearances, this suggests low esteem, inadequacy and ego-based misperceptions that do not serve you.

5) The answer is always love.  Only by loving and accepting all of you as you are now do you invite soul love.

When problems cease to have relevance

The process to get where you are has involved learning experience that is still unfolding.   Each person takes steps that make sense at a given moment.  Your patience and curiousity have brought you ths far and are taking you further.

Certain aspects of the physical world are losing significance in your life.  Your priorities are changing.  It is no surprise to you that information you are absorbing is slowly changing your reality.  Part of you resists transformation.  Yet another part of you already knows the meaning of surrender. This part of you is preparing you for deeper kinds of direct experience.

Problems are often assumed to be reasons to doubt yourself, to be nagging sources of difficulty.  Yet, from the moment you realize you are developing deeper love, respect and understanding in your own way, you recreate a vibration inside. Issues that once bothered you dissolve and lose relevance. Without hesiation, you shift to attune more attentively to echos of the soul. Questions that arise are already being answered.

You may not yet have realized that the soul repeatedly sends you messages.  It does so to assist you to learn valuable lessons.  This is also as part of its own process of bringing you back to perfection.  Part of your energy has entered a physical reality.  Part of your energy is separate and awaiting the reunion. As you move beyond the apparent events of the moment, you detect far more going on. Energy transmutes.

Susan Boyle & 7 Echoes of self-acceptance

Susan Boyle is a Scottish woman who is experiencing unprecedented attention after singing a song on Britain's Got Talent.  Her unfolding dream reveals how the world is awakening to new levels of core consciousness. Consider these messages her behaviour reveals about self-acceptance;

1) Recognize how you think. As self-defeating assumptions take hold, you forget who you are and talents you have.  Learn to discern the process. Core motivation is conditioned to be pleasure. To detach from ego helps end self-deception.

2) Be yourself. Regardless how other people view or describe you, its how you view yourself that matters. To feel at ease and confident means you experience heart and soul as they are. You sense energy and instinctively listen to a loving, inner voice. You forgive people for critics are unaware what they say.

3) Filter distorted information. The senses and faculties shape beliefs and how you respond to trends in pop culture. An unquestioning mind accepts incoming messages and believes the self must conform to images that appear. To doubt your instincts reinforces attachment to what is not really you.

4) Awaken to ignorance.  To be a dispassionate observer of your own life enables awareness of false appearances and choices made as the result of influences that are not you.  Expanding limited ideas of beauty and talent teaches you to appreciate timeless, core qualities in every human being.

5) Overcome afflictive emotions. To allow yourself to generate painful, distressing or fearful emotions arises from basic misunderstanding. As you evolve to sense they do not exist, you no longer anticipate or feel them. You dissolve them and return to vibration of unconditional love. Its all there is.

6) Tackle misperceptions.  When a person removes the mind from considering certain ideas, or distracts mind from what it thinks it wants, this does not get to the core stumbling block. You have to experience things that prompt you to realize the world does not exist in ways ignorance makes it seem. If the physical world exists how people are led to believe, then nothing would ever shift your perspective or values.

7) See the bigger picture. What you do at any given moment is never really about you. It is about engaging a process. Mental and physical notions of happiness and suffering are influential at different stages of one's life. When a person is at a loss to solve a problem, that person is often unaware of a cause or, does not understand universal energy.  As you cease to judge, a gap between perception and thought remains.