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Liara Covert, Ph.D
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"Love everything. Be fully present. All doors are open."- Liara Covert
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You expected something, and it didn't happen.
You expected something, but the opposite happened or nothing. Your ego is shaken, you are in emotional turmoil. Whenever you are miserable, look deeper to uncover why. Empower yourself.
Causes are not outside but within you. The common practice is to look outside, to lay blame or ask:
Who is making me miserable?
Who is the cause of my anger?
Who is the cause of my anguish?
Just as you cannot be intimidated without your consent, you cannot realize what is really going on by focusing outside yourself. If you look outside you miss a deeper message. Watch what happens as you look within instead.
The source of all misery, anger, and fear, is hidden in you, (the ego). From the moment you recognize the source, you feel who is beyond it. To know is your own ego that gives you trouble is the end of its hold over you. Nobody consciously perpetuates his own misery or discomfort if he understands it.
Ever notice how humans are conditioned to focus on what is not working rather than on what is? Shift your focus of your attention consistently and transform the nature of experience.
Many people feel guilty about pleasing themselves. Your misery and your joy are independent of what other people are doing or saying. What is at the heart of your feelings of guilt? Why do you feel guilty about wanting freedom? Consider the essence of being, or, the energy being you are, is already free. Consider why it serves you to temporarily forget. How are you expanding back into who you are? Consciousness is aware of non-physical reality and dimensions beyond the physical. You are raising awareness of all that is without fear now. Get to the heart of your guilt and it easily melts away.
Misery is a concept that often alienates human beings. If misunderstood, it perpetuates a destructive cycle. When you reflect on sources of pain, this may trigger anger, bitterness, and more negativity. Misery is a state of mind that lowers energy, strips you of vitality, focus and alertness.
Part of you may wonder how things could be different, how some happening could save you. Your dreams may seem to shatter. Certain experiences leave you baffled or disoriented. Rather than ask how whatever it is could happen, step back and consider 5 ways apparent misery actually helps you;
1) It invites you to change direction. Discomfort is a wake-up call. Why do you choose to struggle? to perceive chaos? As you stop thinking, you find you still exist. Thoughts distract you from self-acceptance you have always had.
2) It is an opportunty to refocus. As you realize you misinterpret and distort situations, even blow them out of proportion, you realize you can shift your perspective. This discovery enables you to regain inner power. This is an opportunity to teach the self what it means to be unconcerned.
3) It draws attention to mental patterns. Suddenly, you realize you have choices to experience anguish or non-anguish. You feel devastated by explosive energy or, increasingly present and aware of what matters. Either you must disappear or sources of undesirable thoughts must go. What is shrinking?
4) It reminds you who is master. How long have you conceded to leave the mind in charge? To realize the mind is an passive instrument and you are the master changes everything. Learn to put mind in line. Mind cannot assert without your consent. As you tame it, inner violence ceases.
5) It confirms bliss is ever-present. As you detach from mind influence, you rediscover what else exists. In this way, misery is a teacher. To move beyond mind as an obstacle is to realize it is also an opening to joy. You sense the mind is a passage for whatever energy you choose to attract, allow and accept.