Clarify the process

Notice the experiences that expand your perception and understanding of love.  What distracts you from the messages of compassion in a given situation?  Where compassion exists, love does too.  Only fear distorts messages of wisdom and compassion into a reason to suppress or ignore the core messages.  Identify the intention behind action.  Intention creates the consequences.  Find the courage to awaken, challenge and heal.  You may find it useful to keep a journal about why certain observations are especially meaningful.

Choose to remember

At a given moment, the conscious mind is selectively aware and selectively forgets.  You either choose to remember certain things or not. Reflect on the reasons you would offer for choosing to remain selectively ignorant or oblivious to certain aspects of self, or certain life experiences.  How does this serve you? What insight do you gain?  Why is this meaningful?  Notice the feelings that emerge or surface.

Every choice has more than one purpose; those of which you grow aware and those from which you hide.  The curious thing is the mind witholds nothing from soul.  There are no such secrets.  Soul is the omnicient watcher that knows the physical you is in process of raising awareness of unfounded fear.  You graduallyawaken to what you are conditioned to think and feel, why you permit mind to convince you of lacks, imbalances or inequalities. These are all illusions.  Explore the frightened parts of your personality.  See the real you as it is.

Its all part of the process of Self-Disclosure.  As you consciously awaken and choose to create changes from within, you notice degrees of cosmic synchronicity and realize you also have unlimited options to Transform Your Life.

Remove the obstructions

Ever wonder how people apparently separated by time and space relay similar or even identical experiences? Sometimes, the mind conjures up fearful thoughts of ownership or possession.  Then, animosity, competition, idea theft and plagerism are imagined into being. 

And yet, beyond mind, nobody has borrowed anything from anyone else.  They connect with the same Source. The fearful and joyous parts of your personality exist side-by-side.  You choose if and when to release them.  The more you choose to free joy, the more you experience it in the external world. Only you can choose to heal frightened parts of personality. Only you choose to feel unlimited joy.

People ask, "how can I experience happiness?" They assume they must change something in circumstances or other people.  In truth, joy is an expression of core being. As you remove obstructions like beliefs, you discern what you are not falls away to reveal who remains.

Why feel invisible or powerless?

As the story goes, a stone buddha statue is revered by many people.  They approach it by ascending mountain using a series of stone steps. One evening, after the people are gone, the steps express a few words with this statue;

"It is not fair!," cried the steps. "We are carved out of stone from the same mountain and yet people flock to walk all over us and only ever bow down to you.  How can this be possible?"

The buddha statue listened in silence.  When the was ready, he replied: 

"You, as steps, were formed by a few cuts of a knife. I emerged from that same stone yet, only after more than ten thousand cuts." 

As a reminder, we influence each other and all of life with our intention.  We can transform our experiences from fear to love or not.  The rising sun offers new conditions.  The more one thinks of oneself as invisible and powerless, the more one can grow aware of the inner judge, why we blame or envy and how every emotion brings consequences.  One can exert creative power responsibly or irresponsibly.   

Be aware of the motives

An ancient saying reminds us that three things can never be taken back-- a shot arrow, a spoken word and a lost opportunity.  Be aware it is not the actions that matter but the motive's behind one's actions.  Choose to be the best possible version of who you are and you go beyond mere skills to draw from heart and soul. How does your perspective expand as you sense love is the underlying motive for everything? This increasing self-awareness reveals how you actually transform your life without thinking, but by simply being.