10 core job motivations often missed

Everything is synchronicity. You may tell yourself you are searching for something but cannot yet identify what this is. Every relationship and role invites you to grow aware of unique gifts and how you can use them to stretch yourself and enrich others in new ways.  

Notice western society teaches we need to work to survive materially, but motivations for job choices and job changes are not what they appear. To feel discomfort or restlessness invites you to look deeper to make the unseen conscious.  Everything invites you to listen to your feelings.

As it happens, jobs or careers that appeal to you are pointing not so much to your strengths and weaknesses as society has you believe, but to the origin of your misplaced beliefs about love so you heal and let these go. One fundamental life lesson is to love and accept yourself as you are.  You know this is happening as you sense a balanced exchange in time and effort you put in with what you receive in return. 

All your behaviours reveal your relationship to love but you are unaware until you recognize the signs and heal what is revealing itself.  Consider 10 core job motivations often missed that show us how we interpret love.

Listen to yourself. What motivates you to do the job you currently do? 

1. to be helpful and caring 

( this could point to unconscious people- pleasing behavior, confused boundaries, conflict avoidance)

2. to be strong and in control 

(underlying belief that love=being in control, hiding feelings, keeping emotional distance)

3. to be unique and different 

(underlying belief that love/ peer acceptance comes via non-conformism)

4. to be orderly and structured 

(underlying belief that love comes through careful planning)

5. to maintain peace and calm 

(underlying belief that love= keeping peace / mediating conflict)

6. to be impressive and attractive 

(underlying belief that love= achievement, approval seeking)

7. to be knowledgeable 

(underlying belief that love = intellectual/ accumulating information)

8. to be fun and entertaining 

(underlying belief that love=comes when you are only funny/ hide negative feelings)

9. to be secure and safe 

(underlying belief that love=security)

10. to be perfectionistic

(underlying belief that love must be earned through relentless effort)

5 Steps to increase personal power

Notice living in your personal power involves doing what you love, feeling relaxed and at peace most of the time, materializing and monetizing your life purpose without self-sabotage.  Sound like a mouthful? Currently not your reality? Ponder five steps to get greater access to your own innate personal power and unleash the gifts you exist to bring to this world;

1) Tap into negative energy within and express it in a refined way  

This is cathartic. Take personal responsibility for misinterpretations of situations at different stages of your life and recognize the energy can be rechannelled or expressed differently.  Rather than expressing anger outward, recognize that from the moment underlying reasons for it are understood, this energy is harnessed and redirected in ways with unforeseen benefits.

2) Notice self-worth is self-love in action 

Do things that people with high self-worth and self acceptance do.  When you hold yourself in high esteem as a person, you respect yourself and others equally. Express kindness, compassion, love without expectations.   

3) Establish clearer boundaries

This is about finding courage to clarify and present who you are to the world.  It is done from a new level of high self-worth and requires you clarify for yourself what you will and will not do and limits to commitments.

4) Let go of the non-essentials

 Be honest about what evokes suffering, resentment and struggle.  Shift focus of attention to life circumstances that resonate joy and completeness.  Trust yourself more.  Like atrracts like or more of the same energy.

5) Commit to your dream and connect the dots

Only synchronicity exists. Be receptive to what you uncover. about yourself and take steps to actualize what the heart and soul are guiding you toward.  Its already in you.  Simply allow it to flourish.

The moment is here

The moment is here for a shift in perspective, frequency and way of life. No more are we able to say something may or may not happen.  No longer can we self-doubt or resist accepting and expressing our deepest truth.  Shifting energetic gears means it is impossible to tell or manifest another lie.

This is the moment from which we take full responsibility for all we create, encounter, perceive, and however we respond.  Everything is simply a different version of ourselves, testing our own resolve, helping us draw out and exercise our forgotten abilities.  This is the moment to feel revitalized and guided by the growing intensity and momentum within.

This is the moment endless courage, confidence, inspiration flow naturally and seamlessly. This is the moment to consciously design and manifest the existence only spoken or dreamed about previously. In the blink of an eye, everything required is presenting, communicating  with and through you, and details are coming together.

Step back and take a panoramic view of your life in all its ebbs and flows.  The ebbs are pointing to the flow, that everything required is already accessible. Whether its money, relationships, opportunities, contacts, direction or some other  path or solution, everything is already engaging in silent dialogue with you. Stop, probe deeper, and listen. Everything is part of an endless stream of synchronicity tuned into at will.

3 Tips to take life as it comes

Life is uncertain, no matter how much planning you think you can do.  Unexpected happenings, people acting out of what you think is normal character, may seem to be in your face more and more often. Maybe your phone stops working, some other technology breaks down, you are unable to receive or respond to messages, or lights go on and off mysteriously in your presence.  

Upon closer look, mere coincidence is changng to increasing glimpses of ever-present synchronicities. In light of such strange or unusual occurrences, you may ask who is really in control here and what  is the message you are giving yourself? Take these three tips to accept life as it comes;

1) Remember permanence is illusion. 

Humans are taught to create a  sense of lasting security and stability when all that is predictable is change.

2) Laugh more often to keep your sanity

Every laugh is a mystery bubbling to the surface to reveal itself in decipherable terms. When you can see things from a more objective or removed vantage point, everything looks different than when taking things personally. Notice a shift in or new sense of normal.  Every unfolding, every encounter is a pointer to you, the source creating every situation as a springboard to expand into more.

3) Focus on what you are gaining, what is working or being revealed.

 Humans are conditioned to focus on what they seem to be losing or not getting and focret point of attention detemines perception and experience. The same energy can be felt as disappointment/fear or reason for excitement.

50 Signs of Spiritual Awakening

This post shared with appreciation/ acknowledgement to Metonia World:

1. Spiritual awakening raises your vibration; this involves a release of blockages which allows abundance to flow to you. Being in alignment with a higher vibration results in quicker and more beneficial manifestations to be received by you.

2. Seeking new friends and groups who are interested in the Integrated life of the spirit (meaning balance in mind-body-spirit)

3. You begin to look younger experiencing more vitality
 

4. A feeling that something has changed within you

5. An increased interest in exercising in ways that honour your body – mind – spirit connection

6. Becoming more aware of how your body moves through space

7. Heightened senses of hearing, smell and taste

8. An increasing ability to access inner peace in the lower chakras

9. Activating grace and fluidity of movement through posture and breath

10. A sense of your own power to create with thought, words, and actions

11. Paying attention to the places of pain/restriction in your body in order to move into them!

12. Knowing that these places within your body are showing you about areas of great opportunity for growth on all levels.

13. A feeling of being grounded to the core of the earth.

14. Seeking holistic health care practitioners as partners in your healing journey…no longer seeking a doctor to “fix you” with prescription drugs

15. Disconnection from the white noise and negative information (TV and radio)

16. More frequent flashes of ‘inner-tuition’, or intuition

17. Increasing Gnosis (knowledge of spiritual mysteries)

18. Making a conscious effort to connect to people through the eyes and the heart

19. Ability to learn new concepts, or languages rapidly increases …this stems from opening to all your soul record and remembering who you are

20. Greater understanding of symbols, numbers and sacred geometry

21. Increasing sense of empathy and connection with all people & animals

22. An increasing willingness to show your emotions to all people, rather than cover up and hide your true self

23. An increased humor; the ability to laugh at the self

24. Feelings of bliss when experiencing simple things, such as a sunset, or a seeing a beautiful cloud formation

25. A returning ability to allow your tears to flow in situations of emotional intensity

26. Letting go of the need to control outcomes

27. Giving yourself permission to follow your heart’s desires

28. “I can and I am” becoming your key words, rather than “I can’t and I am not”

29. Offering from the heart to help others in times of need, knowing that you are helping yourself

30. Increasingly seeing the Divine in the mundane

31. Meeting new people in serendipitous ways and knowing that this is divine direction in your life

32. Loving yourself as you are without the need to qualify

33. Asking for and receiving confirmation from your inner guide on a regular basis

34. Experiencing true surrender to Divine Will without feeling victimized by your own choices

35. Remembering your dreams and knowing what your spirit is telling you via symbolism of your dreams

36. Seeing the beauty in each and every person in your life

37. Letting go of expectations of how you think things “should be” and accepting them as they are

38. Being led by spiritual intuition rather than limited by emotional fear

39. Being able to transcend limited perceptions of incarnate dimensions

40. Seeing your life experience in the holographic reality of your soul

41. Feeling God within your body – an awareness of heat coming from your hands and feet.

42. Knowing that your are home now and in every Now you create

43. An increase in recognizable synchronicity, favourable people and beneficial circumstance start to appear with exactly what you need. Answers to questions are revealed to you through signs and messages. Synchronicity is a sign you are on the right track and that you are aware of these miracles happening around you. The more you notice and take heed, the more they appear so show appreciation for the guidance you are receiving.

44. You simply feel different, you may not look any different but you know something has changed internally.

45. Paying more attention to the details of daily life – your old ways are falling by the wayside and the real you is starting to emerge.

46. A desire to enroll in a classroom of “higher” learning. Going to new places and moving outside of your comfort zone

47. For many of you, this is allowing yourself to ask questions in groups, to talk to “strangers” and to let go of your fears of looking uninformed in front of others.

48. A feeling that you are somehow different, with new skills and gifts emerging, especially healing ones.

49. Increased integrity, you realize that it is time for you to seek and speak your truth.

50. A knowing sense of connectedness / Oneness. You have an abiding knowing from within of the intrinsic inter-relatedness of everything, both living and non-living. You have a sense that now your life is a living manifestation of this Truth, and that you are It — as are all people.