10 Tips to Transform your Relationship
Thursday, December 4, 2025 at 4:36PM People approach me to address discomfort and restlessness they experience in their relationships. You may experience a partner or child who is angry, stand-offish and feel alienated for varied reasons. This can be the start of a deep dive into many issues that currently baffle you. Reaching out for mentor support can be helpful.
Wherever you are at, there exist things you can do yourself to begin to get yourself on track. Heed 10 tips to transform from inside out:
1. Create the vision for your relationship and yout life
2. Recall or relearn to truly love yourself.
3. Be open to what could change your perspective.
4. Find courage to uncover self-created obstacles and blind spots.
5. Grow awareness and explore causes of behaviour patterns.
6. Learn to create emotional safety for yourself (then others).
7. Become your own source of enouragement.
8. Discover what your emotional needs are and how to meet them.
9. Accept you are the cause of how you see things and can turn this around.
10. Tke full responsibility for your thoughts, words and feelings.