Use the power of the mind
As awareness grows, you direct your thoughts more consciously. Turn your attention to something that you are not already experiencing. You are now in the process of creating. Consider the dream you are presently living reflects your thoughts. They are themselves manifest desires. You recognize and reinforce the presence or lack of what you think about.
Consider what you believe is possible and why you care how or what other people think about you and your choices. When what people think matters to you, this holds you back from closing the gap between what you dream and what you experience. Connect with your inner energy. Align with the inner love and appreciation. External approval is irrelevant.