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Aug192018

The root of everything

Getting to the root of who you are involves true courage.  This is not the heroic kind, putting your life or reputation on the line, that western society has come to focus on.  Its about remembering how it feels to speak openly and honestly, fearlessly putting our vulnerability on the line. 

In other words, we must be willing to take responsibility, set an example for living authentically.  Otherwise, we simply create and encounter a mirror of our own deception.  When was the last instance you risked being vulnerable and disappointed? How did that turn out for you? 

Practicing true courage involves selectively sharing your vision with people who support you, not downplaying your dreams. Its about allowing tears or emotions to flow as they will, not hiding your true feelings as society so often teaches.  Only when we know our own darkness well can we be present with the darkness of others and relate to them with compassion on equal footing.

If the root of everything is genuine connection, then everything you think, do or say either strengthens or weakens this connection.  The topic certainly merits some attention.  What if you feel energized or drained based on the degree you feel seen, heard and valued, based on the freedom you give yourself to offer input without fear of judgment?

Through her research, Brene Brown reveals that only one thing separates people who feel a deep sense of love and belonging (connection) from people who seem to be struggling for (or running from) it.  This is the depth of belief in worthiness.  True connection arises from an equal exchange of energy. How do you share or exchange energy to derive your self- worth? What are your behavioural patterns telling you about the nature of connection in your life? 

If we want to fully experience connection, we must act as if we know we are worthy of it.  We must also recognize being who we are doesn't require us to change. It simply requires self-acceptance to guide our life choices. Take an inventory of how you feel. Let go of who you think you are supposed to be. Olny seeing through the falseness can you embrace who you are.

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Long Distance Hiking always took me to my highest level of being. Everything was accounted for in a loving way and i could catch a flow without resistance and ride upon the highs of creation. It was my closest sense of being at Home.

However, as i let go of those low or sticking points in everyday life... how i saw humanity and the human condition, it too let go of my perception of me. I had been shameful and guilty of feelings i expressed in past circumstances and felt punished by them. I now embrace them and allow those feelings to flow through me and therefore so much more of life gooshes into my well being. As the last walls crumbled, i attracted a brand new reflection... a reflection that could dissolve fully into my heart without resistance. And so i have finally found love as if for the very first time. The search is over and there is a new beginning without end.

I had hiked for the love of nature and for freedom and to leave behind that which was uncomfortable. However, what i know to be true now is that i hiked for a feeling... a resonance that was more in alignment with my soul being. The form really was not the source of the attraction. And so true love has come into my life and all the walls are just disintegrating and dissolving into the stillness of pure being. I no longer have to hike to feel in love. I am love and i have found the most beautiful soul to reflect this unconditional state of innocence and yet wild sense of joy and passion for life and living. I no longer am pulled anywhere but merely flow to where my reflection is clear. I now see and feel so much. I am truly in new place of understanding and experience of what it feels like to be in the Oneness and embrace of the Now.
August 25, 2018 | Unregistered CommenterBern
Hi Bern, what becomes apparent, regardless of our choices, is that we cannot runaway from our true selves forever. Every moment is an opportunity to get intimate with aspects of our shadow as part of a process of integration. What we think we are running from is often a pointer to what the heart knows and feels.
August 27, 2018 | Registered CommenterLiara Covert

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