You make this place

You make this place what it appears to be based on how you think and feel about it.  Do people you encounter seem to behave as monsters or angels?  Your attitude shapes your experience.

If you seek to conquer others, the universe points to opportunities for profound lessons. If you wish to control others, you know suffering.  As you recognize controlling behaviour does not serve you, other options are still open to you.  Notice love is the opposite of control.

If you are kind, compassionate and non-judgmental, you see goodness in the hearts of others and overlook what the mind would have you compare and judge. Notice they see in you what you see in them. The world is a mirror that reflects how you feel about yourself. 

Let things be.  Flow with them.   Love people and things so much you are willing to let them go. Be happy, come what may.  State of mind and emotions fluctuate with conditions while being simply is. Unhinge the door the mind places in front of of the heart.  Love no matter what.

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[Bernhard]

The door to the heart is made of compressed wood chips that people often shoulder ... a mosaic of unresolved life experiences glued together that keeps one's love locked within... till the door is allowed to be consumed by the flames of one's own inner sun. One can Tear down the entire house built to code by allowing the tears to finally flow making the world into a homeless haven.

[Liara Covert]

Bern, nothing is forever resolved and unresolved. Consider the example of the opening of the Olympic Games. Hundreds and thousands of reporters broadcast reports of this one event. Every report is slightly different based on the unique reporter. Depending on the programming is operating in the mind, whatever filters, mechanisms for interpreting and judging, that is the limited scope through which a given world is seen. The sun is always shining. What is seen and related to what does not change the essence of the sun. This sun always shines through the heart centre. You take it with you wherever you go.