3 Ways to be solutions-oriented
You are responsible for all that is unfolding in your life, for what you decide is within reach and what you tell yourself is not. You are the vibrational centre of your world. All that happens to you results from how you vibrate. Notice if you limit yourself to visible reality, beat the drum about what you do not see or place your trust in what you cannot see. Every convergence of experiences, everything you experience arises based on how you think and feel. Whether you think something is possible or not, your energy vibration proves you right. Give this a go:
1) Be solutions-oriented in every circumstance. Control the point of your vibrational attraction. Observe an unwanted situation in a way that transforms it into something you want. Be aware of the problem and still be a vibrational match to the solution. You can see evidence of the problem and still talk about how the solution feels. Law of attraction responds to energy.
2) Know how your emotions work. Your emotions are relative to your desire. Before a manifestation occurs, your emotions tell you what is coming. If you are afraid, you attract evidence to confirm why you have reason to feel that way. When you feel confident you are realizing your desire, living the dream, this shapes the nature of what manifests.
3) Listen to the music of the heart. The music of the heart offers the solution to every situation. Its not that everyone cannot hear the music of the heart, some people simply do not listen. That is, they block it out with beliefs of what is not possible. When life causes you to want something, when you expand to create that something, when you do not go along with this expansion, you not going along with this expanded version triggers negative emotion. If you feel bad, its not because you do not have a thing, but because of resistant attention, because you are not up to speed with who you are.