10 Tips to be radically responsible
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Commit to our 21 Days of Radical Responsibility Program
Start with 10 tips to be radically responsible (for your life):
1. Make choices based on what’s actually true, rather than what you think should be true.
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Listen to how you feel in this moment-be aware of signs, signals, sensations as pointers.
- Tune into the heart vibration and rhythm of the breath. To feel calm or rattled is a reliable guide.
2. Assert and reinforce your feelings, needs, boundaries, requests.
- Be aware of when someone attempts to talk you out of your feelings
- See everything as an opportunity to trust yourself more
3. Own your choices and visions. Don't blame others or the external.
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Know you are who you are because of all your experiences
- See the lesson or blessing in all situations whihc you create for yourself to grow
4. Honor personal power of others.
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Treat them as whole, creative and resourceful rather than needy
- See your role is to allow others to make their own choices rather than control them
5. Filter for present-moment thinking
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Be aware of tense of language spoken
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Let go of thoughts of past or future
6. Focus on what's in your control
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Focus on yourself and your responses to the external
- Accept what is within your power and reach
7. Be radically honest with yourself and your values
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Be aware that every choice has consequences
- Do not go along with others simply its easier (recall Dumbledore: "The time comes Harry, when w must choose between what is right and what is easy.")
8. Practice your ability to respond to your emotions, sensations, and thoughts in useful ways
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Validate your truth, intuition, signs and signals from within you
- Meditate to sharpen subtle senses
9. Practice self-compassion: treat yourself with kindness and grace
- Set realistic standards
- Love yourself, your choices & inclinations
10. Take action. Action is reciprocal with confidence. Don't stay stuck because you're unsure or the path is unclear. Take a step forward.
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Notice feacing fear is the reliable choice (so long as it doesn't put you in harm's way)
- Recall your thoughts and feelings direct every moment of your life – no one is coming to save you=
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