Recognize you're a gateway

Regardless of what you desire or hope for, the key to realizing goals is to recognize you're a gateway for the passage of intention energy. As you learn to give and receive love, that is, to give and receive unconditionally, this will lead you to sense new meaning in life. You will realize you never act alone or without support.

To think about it another way, any vision you have for relationships, career, health, growth or purpose, all comes back to how you feel about yourself and what you think you deserve. One basic goal many people have is to feel more confident about bigger goals and plans to achieve them. Consider these ideas to enhance goal-setting:

1) Heal any fears about giving or receiving love. If you harbour any fear of not succeeding in your projects or dreams, this hinders a sense of progress. You send out energy into the universe based on your vibrations. Negativity, doubt or self-destructive thinking is a low vibration which invites more of the same. Healing fears invites more upbeat experiences. You have to be looking for them in order for them to find you.  If you keep working when you are tired, you get stuffed and cannot perform.  Learn to let go.  Trust this is an investment. Put it away for a while.  Relax. Come back to it with a clear mind.  When you devote your whole self with joy, you get more work done in less time with less stress.

2) Forgive anyone who may have hurt you or held you back. You may be tempted to blame others for holding you back from where you think you should be.  However, your own choices and emotions have led you to where you are. If someone didn't react the way you'd hoped, this may be a blessing in disguise. Forgive them, forgive yourself. Step into the light. Your positive feelings offer clues about meaningful goals.  As you listen, you will raise your energy vibration and focus differently.

3) Love & accept yourself. What is unfolding does not have to affect how you feel about yourself. Keep nothing. Dwell on nothing of the past. If one goal does not work out the way the ego wants, listen to the heart.  Know this makes you available for another opportunity you would not otherwise be free to notice. Press the delete button. No person, no set of conditions, no stroke of luck, no mentor, can guide you until you decide you are worthy regardless of goals you achieve. To love yourself fully is to trust what you feel in the heart. Even if the external world judges you based on exam results, your future does not depend on exams. The more you love yourself, the more you feel successful whatever you do. Recognize you are a gateway to self-acceptance.  Quiet the mind.  Meditate on feeling good wherever you are.

Comments

[Jenny]

Absolutely great goal-setting advice! Once again you provide me with much food for thougth Liara! Thank you so much.

[Liara Covert]

Hi Jenny.
Glad to offer you a new perspective on goal-setting. Many people begin their goal-setting with a vision of their desired end result. This can be helpful, but without examining your thought process and also learning to recognize what fuels and hinders your own progress, you'll be less likely to get to where you hope to be.

[Springer]

I want to become a gynecologist. When I saw how much schooling it took, the classes I have to take and what Medical Schools required, I began to doubt. Reading this was much needed boost to get my mind set on the right things. Thank you!

[Liara Covert]

Springer, many people experience more than one job or career. In whatever spherse of work you have, you can be successful with a smile on your face. As soon as you experience something, let it go and leave it in the past. True success has nothing to do with what you do, how much money you charge for services, how you judge what has happened in your life, or how highly regarded society views a particular role. Why base success on a possible future? Unconditional success is based on how much you love and accept yourself in this present moment.