Move beyond the story
Every person has a story. Some people have more than one. You may share a particular story that reveals different opinions. Notice the universal lessons that speak to you through every experience. Notice where you feel attached to certain ideas or resistant to change. What prevents you from allowing the mind to relax and feeling inner being?
Consider what you reach for. You might be someone who is consciously willing to expand. As you move from intellectual understanding to knowing, you realize comparisons lose all meaning. Recognize when you require no explanation, no confirmation or approval, identity is no longer what separates you from other beings. Move from the need to articulate your story. As you align with the real you, you shift priorities. To feel the world as soul does, is to be with people rather than in competition. Take self and perception of other out. Resonate with the compassion you are.