3 Signs that you move to master your life
Humans will often question, "am I there yet?" or, "what do I have left to learn?" Suffice is to say that if you still exist in this world, you still have much to learn. Yet, regardless of age or life experience, you can always gain new insight into progress. How would you describe your mindset now? Consider 3 signs that you are moving to master your life:
1) You are no longer bothered by what people say or do. As you evolve to get-to-know and accept yourself, you no longer care about the approval or rejection of others. You no longer nurture self-criticism, justify guilt, fear or shame. You no longer hang on someone else's words, regret what may have been or dwell on emotional turmoil. These ephemeral states are seen as tests. Your inner calm reflects how you are moving "into your own."
2) You are willing to give anything up. No matter what you have earned or acquired, you would have no trouble giving it all away or dealing with conditions if you lost it all. As you become more highly-evolved, you realize you only imagine worry. You discern everything you need already exists. If you decide you can be anywhere you wish, you will be. You begin to experience sharing what you have far beyond objects and lessons. This strengthens your inter-connectedness with all. We don't have to "get anywhere" because we already are "there," right where we need to be. You already have it all.
3) You realize your perceived enemies are wounded parts of yourself. Anyone who seems to "have it out for you" simply reflects a part of you yet to be accepted and integrated. As you grow to sense your role is to heal all your wounds, this includes loving and forgiving yourself and people who may not reciprocate. Who you really are is unrelated to your physical body and perceived capacities. Your ego is an imperfect filter that you move to transcend.
Reader Comments (14)
Your inner calm reflects how you are moving "into your own."
This strengthens your inter-connectedness with all.
As you grow to sense your role is to heal all your wounds, this includes loving and forgiving yourself and people who may not reciprocate.
I have never cared about rejection or approval. I knew there was always a higher authority in which no judgments were made. Life is about surrender; we surrender what we have for who we are. The end result is phenomenal.
I thoroughly enjoyed this post. Thanks. :D
I understand to give up anything as not clinging with the heart to possession and the third point I like most. Enemies are my wounded parts. Yes, true.
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Another well thougt out post, Full of wisdom and real understanding of inner growth. You consisntantly provide great advice on this blog and it keeps me coming back. Keep up the good work :)
Alexys, many people don't consciously think they focus on rejection or approval, yet subconsciously many of us are affected by other people. As we choose to move forward in positive ways, we raise our awareness about what we really think and do and why.Its all good.
rainer, its an asset to be able to step back from how you used to regard things and people and learn to see things differently. Its not a question of what is better or worse but rather, what works for you at a given time is different than it was before.
Steve, glad you enjoy the blog reflections. Each of us decides what we choose to retain and apply. We also have the freedom to allow information to enter one of ears ear and leave out the other. Awareness is a choice and so is a move toward greater self-understanding.
Much light to you!
Pippa
We each act consciously and unconsciously. To raise our awareness about unconditional and unlimited love is how we figure out answers to every question. Why do people often wish love was unlimited? Why do they wish they felt more free to express and experience it? Your instinct is to get to know what makes you who you are, the crux of love itself.
Just what i need to hear today.
Thanks to Alexys for guiding me here.
Soft Light and the roundness of laughter to you,
Maithri
Its reassuring when you sense you still have things to work on because they become a source of motivation. Your life also gains new meaning from a learning process.
Just wanted to say thanks for your continued support and terrific blog comments. Your blog is a godsend for many people and I want to say Thanks. :D