Understand & release destructive feelings

You don't realize dreams unless you love yourself. You can't love yourself until you forgive all your perceived imperfections and see beyond. You don't learn to love fully before you realize you have reason to love the innocence in others. If your instinct is to judge or attack, then you have new opportunities to see new purpose in life. Fear is what sets in when you forget how to love. fear is a delusion. You don't fight fear, rather, you turn on the love and extinguish or dissolve the illusion of fear.

Are you unhappy people aren't nice to you? You might interpret their behavior as a call for compassion and love. Only what your own heart is doing determines whether you have peace within. If people seem nasty, aren't you forgetting to love yourself? Everybody loves you, they just don't all know it yet. We have a veil called a personality that hides the loving beings we are. We also fall into the trap of being blinded to the true personalities of others.  Any judgment you have on anyone, is a way to judge yourself and prolong your suffering. You may be saying, what is my mission? What should I do? Learn to use your mind to figure out why you're here.

You can experience clarity. The physical reality is only the level of effect. Consciousness is the level of cause. Changes you make in behavior will only be temporary unless you deal with the thoughts at the basic level. Invite yourself to rethink potentially destructive feelings and decipher them for what they really are. Knowing is a way to remove their power or hold over you. Its not your job to get things, its your job to discern why you create barriers to sensing and learning.

1) Denial: takes form when you fear anything other than what you think you know. Learn to let go by becoming more flexible and open-minded, and accepting that you don't know everything. You want a perfect relationship with whatever you deny yourself. Get comfortable with having whatever you fear not knowing or having.

2) Anger: takes form when your values, principles or beliefs are threatened. Learn to let go by accepting diverse ideas contribute to a wider view. The real matter is learning to see thoughts, expressions and others equally rather than unequally.

3) Annoyance: takes form when you allow yourself to judge and somehow feel discomfort about it. Learn to build self-confidence, to balance inner (spiritual) and outer (physical) world views. This implies transcending visions of hierarchies.

4) Depression: takes form when you give into doubt, lose direction or get wrapped up in what isn't enough or isn't working. Learn to let go by realizing everything happens at exactly the right time and you can learn from it all. You must go within to envision and create the world anew, attracting the experiences you want.

5) Resentment: takes form as reaction to criticism, sarcasm, judgment and control of ego-mind.  Learn to let go by tapping into the healing force of the Universe. Replace harsh impulses with the desire to share kindness, to align your mind with the Universe's forcefield of positive power. Expand on your view of "appropriate."

6) Discomfort: takes form when intolerance or disapproval are permitted to control your mind. Learn to let go by opening your heart, becoming more accepting, and sensing value in other people for who they are and how they think.

7) Hostility: takes form when you refuse to accept some aspect of yourself at soul-level. Learn to let go of the negative eneergy by pinpointing exactly what you don't love inside. Choose to seek within yourself and take down the barriers that prevent you from experiencing love. Realize why you condemn and decide you're worthy. 

8) Sadness: takes form when you sense lack, void, regret, and permit selfishness to prevail. Learn to surrender, celebrate what is, to grasp selflessness, altruism and infinite joy. Take opportunities to forgive people who don't think they deserve it. If you don't choose to love, you can't understand people. You also set them up to fail.

It begins & ends with you

You won't be more successful when you get a new job, find a better relationship, experience a different lifestyle, move to a new city, win the lottery or, stumble upon more reciprocal friendships. Success doesn't come in waiting. It is experienced in becoming aware of your character, accepting who you are, and all you can be.

Don't wait for a situation to make you feel happy or complete or fulfilled. Don't go assuming a single person or opportunity can transform your life. Ask yourself whether you have been accepting people and situations as they are or, is it time for you to embrace change? You're not here to change the world. You're here to remember why you're here. That means, accessing your core self and embracing it.

Success is something you know as you learn to love yourself. It comes through empowerment and recognizing you live your life on your own terms with all the consequences that come with free will.  The truth of the matter is that you go through periods of advancement.  You learn what it means to take two steps forward and three steps back.  You discover the power of love is far greater than the power if fear or the power of anything else you permit to have a hold on you.

Unless your heart is open, unless you are seeking in your own life to move past what you have experienced before, the kinds of people you have permitted to hold you back and the kinds of conditions that muffle your personality, will continue to hold you back.  You will not put yourself in situations where you can manifest and exemplify your most loving potential.  At any given moment, decide whether you will accept people and conditions with an open, forgiving heart.

Learn to channel & step into Universal widom

Channelling can become an exercise in self-development. It enables you to appreciate your talents, to reflect, and recognize your growth. Each person channels love through the physical body. Do you feel it? You can draw new significance from other emotions. Tuning into vibrations can empower you to expand on creative self-expression. Visualize with purpose and channel thoughts to intend physical realities.

As you learn to clear your mind of negativity and fear, you become more aware of intuition. Yet, when your asked to 'come to your senses,' you may mistake this request as reason to inhibit your growing connection to  Higher Conscience.  This kind of reaction closes off your abilities to connect telepathically with other minds. If you take control and choose to trust your intuition, you can develop innate psychic powers, awaken subliminal premonitions and explore your deeper potential.

You may decide your curiosity and inner sense of direction prompt you to go further with channelling. You may sharpen skills that expand consciousness to facilitate channeling spirits from beyond.  Mediumship is a possibility on your road to enlightenment. Learning to connect with your inner sense of knowing is a process which is separate from sensory perception.  Regardless of whether you evolve to explore the metaphysical world, as you learn to meditate and become aware of channelling, you can develop a sense of purpose and participation in self-growth:

1) Boost self confidence. Complexes of self-doubt and low esteem create the concern that others may not approve of our behavior.  To explore your ability to channel may lead to some "way out" feelings.  The value you will get out of this experience is what you choose and how you decide to experience youre reality.

2) Expand your thoughts.  Channelling is a way to expand yourself.  Step outside your comfort zone.  Go further to explore additional dimensions to assist human development.  To develop spontaneity, to lose inhibitions, can result in visionary ideas which are initially rejected or feared but which become the core of who you are. Life you know has nothing to do with what you get but everything to do with how you think and whetehr or not you choose to participate fully.

3) Beauty lies in the process.  You're not waiting to have a different job or relationship to be a somebody. You channel thoughts and feelings all the time and choose what is worth listening to.  Certain experiences just never come because you're not ready or haven't learned the lessons you have to learn right in front of you. It isn't the situation that determines whether you give all you have, it is whether or not you choose to embrace the process and all that you are.

4 Points to consider rather than revenge

All relationships aren't experienced in a positive light. You may be grappling with thoughts of anger or revenge you feel tempted to carry out to get even. If you've been hurt in relationships, your reflex may be to take impulsive action. Look out! Jealousy, resentment or thoughts of "not enough" can become the energy that flows in your veins and the dominant frequencies you send out. You invite more of what you think about into your life. Attracting negativity isn't in your best interest.

Allowing discomfort to control you affects your relationships in a domino affect. To help you regain control over your thoughts, feelings and impact relationships in more positive ways, you need to change focus before you take revenge or do things you might regret. As such,it makes sense to remind yourself of four things:

1) People behave based on what they know. Some people have no point of reference for love, compassion and appreciation. They may manipulate, exploit or harm people to project how they have been treated, how lost they feel, and based on examples they have seen. This scenario helps you understand why people will push away precisely what they need most, that is, people who glow with happiness or enthusiasm, who offer of guidance, gestures of compassion or other assistance. People who reject what they need fear what they don't know. Why send them more negativity? That won't help them and it won't help you nurture better relations.

2) People get wrapped up in their ego-mind. Ironically, when times are good and money flows, there can be greater dissatisfaction due to "enough syndrome".  As people envision what things could be like, they may become angry and enraged about how things actually are for them. How many people do you know who openly compare themselves to others? Do members of your family frequently talk about what you don't have that the neighbours do? Are you envious of the affection and loyalty you see in other couples, the success you witness in other businesses and levels of creative energy? Focusing on reasons for emptiness or getting even won't fill your void.  It would dig your hole deeper.  Choose to build on your strengths instead.

3) People who never get angry may be easy targets. Aggressive and angry people can easily take advantage of such people because they may cringe and back away. They don't fight back. If this sounds like you, then you choose to be a victim. You may sense helplessness and get anxious, afraid, and depressed. Lashing out to make up for lost time isn't the answer. Do you treat other people as you desire to be treated? This invites treatment you want. Sending thoughts of love and forgiveness and then, disciplining yourself to shift focus would be more effective. Ensure your actions don't undermine or contradict your intentions for enriching relationships.

4) Most behavior is learned early in life. If a person comes from a chaotic or disrupted home, being angry may have been the example set. Sometimes children learn the only way to get what they want is to start a fight or express angry. Parents may have given in to quiet them. Other adults who are susceptible to anger, keep it inside and take advantage of people. Such angry adults simply act as they always have. Recognizing this kind of personality may give you reason to make choices that put distance between you. You can't change others, but you control your reactions.

Keep your vision in the light

Its useful to recognize we're missing parts of the dream, the story we're in the process of living and putting together.  We are complicated beings.  Throughout events that unfold, its reassuring to know we're never alone.  Angels are an endless source of inspiration that guide us to embrace more meaningful opportunities.

Angel guides will tell you we each have free will, no matter which plane we're on.  To them, the state we call death leads the soul to another plane of existence.  As you become attuned to your emotions and feelings, you notice you walk through different doors, relationships, scenarios and situations on Earth. Thus, the prospect of eventually existing and passing through different stages of learning in other dimensions may begin to make more sense.  You can always sprout wings and fly.

Yet, wherever you exist now, recognize you still have work to do.  We each have roles to perform.  Nurturing faith and trust in ourselves will assist us to do our best.  All fear is merely a line of illusion.  You can step over it much easier than you think.  You may know people who make their lives more difficult than need be, all because they haven't yet understood how they view themselves and the world is illusory.  Keep your vision on the light. Life can be like a kaleidoscope of change.