Dissolve it away

If thoughts are pre-matter with substance and mass, then why is it so hard to prove beyond a shadow of a doubt that we form everything at will?  Since everything and everyone has substance and mass and a kind of reality, why doesn't everyone sense they take shape according to pleasure and perception?  Why don't more people believe they dissolve or think away circumstances when it feels right for them to disappear?  Why would you choose to re-create what had already dissolved?

"Everything is a miracle. It is a miracle that one does not dissolve in one's bath like a lump of sugar." -Pablo Picasso

"It makes no difference how deeply seated may be the trouble, how hopeless the outlook how muddled the tangle, how great the mistake. A sufficient realization of love will dissolve it all."-Emmet Fox