Reprogram your mental computer

How often do you awaken thinking you're in for another lousy day with lousy people? Do you feel your dreams have been stolen, and heavy responsibilities unloaded on you by others? You may tell yourself it's okay make light of and exaggerate your perceived problems. Where you are now and with whom may not seem ideal. If you haven't yet learned to accept you can change your situation with your mind, you're about to discover an incredible inner power that will change you forever.

How are you being prepared for a more fulfilling life? You may be in a relationship that is painful and challenging. You may wonder how you'll make it through hardship. You may have a child with learning disabilities, a relative with serious health problems, a partner with whom you conflict. You may have stepfamily with whom you don't see eye-to-eye, you may sense interactions with friends and acquaintances are more a burden than a blessing. What kinds of obstacles do you face? How do you create your own illusions? When will you reshape them? What is your attitude?

1) No more blaming. It's not people around who have stolen your dreams and made your life harder than you think it should be. You may simply have lost or never really developed faith in yourself. The secret to strengthening relationships with yourself and others is to believe your attitude is convertible. Rechannel the energy inside.

2) Refrain from worsening your situation. If you feel guilty or afraid of more mistakes, you need to dig your heels in. As you complain, you underestimate your power to focus on the possible. As you focus on what isn't right, you permit your mindset to steal your joy. Those little things become huge. The more you talk about problems and distractions, the more depressed you'll get. Negativity drags you and other people down. Instead, focus on solutions to uplift your spirits and strengthen relationships. Attract the people you desire by talking about the qualities you seek. Discover these desirable qualities lie in people you know and in you. Learn to see it on the inside or it won't evolve into reality on the outside.

3) Stop allowing yourself to feel overwhelmed. You may have difficulties, but you are where you are to gain new insight into yourself. You have the necessary strength and resourcefulness. If you weren't in your current situation, you wouldn't have the chance to prove yourself or convince yourself that you can accomplish things you never even imagined. Shake off a sense of failure in your past. Choose to enjoy your life. Be grateful you're alive, that you have the abilities you have, and that people you meet teach you what they do about yourself. Don't give into temptation to worry. Reframe the situation based on what you gain, not on what you lose.