Is it only you?

You may dream of different kinds of relationships than those you know and wonder if your frustration and other negative emotions stem purely from 'you'. You may spiral back at the result of some past decisions and re-examine your initial impressions of people you thought you knew. It’s all good. You’re always evolving but may be unaware of benefits in these changes. Consider new ways of sensing your emotions:

1) You may be processing ‘generic’ energies. This isn’t like laying the blame conveniently on someone for things you’ve done. It’s a matter of opening your mind up to realize you pick up on mental and physical energy all around you from indirect sources. To grasp this is to learn you can detach from external events and not permit your mood to fluctuate based on them. You are in charge of how you react.

2) You may be the object of transference. People who recognize your susceptibility or vulnerability may unload their emotional baggage or energies onto you. This may take form in complainers, and people who express unhappiness to your attentive ears. Whenever you choose to listen, you absorb energies. This can affect your thoughts and mood unless you decide to shift the conversation and your life.

3) You may not know yourself as well as your think. Since we each invite people into our lives based on how we think and feel, you may be unaware of aspects of your own mind and what you aim to learn. Each person is there to offer you a lesson. Life is all about growing and expanding. What you choose to get out of each relationship will impact its nature and its duration and  people who will come next.