Even right now, you are taking action that itself makes that action more beautiful. People are conditioned to focus on what they gain on a physical level. As you begin to awaken, you gain insight into nothing. You come to feel its the nature of love to express itself, to make itself known and to work through what unfolds. To feel the world you perceive is love in action allows self to expand. How to do it?
One suggestion is to consider how your views on suffering invite change. Any call for attention is also a gesture of love. The love you are exists to expand, deepen consciousness and understanding of being. When love is withheld, suffering is permitted to spread. You stop taking for granted dreams can exist without dreamers. You shift to focus on how everything you do is a step to Transform your life.