Ever think you have to choose between all or nothing? Notice what happens as you begin to recognize all, nothing and every possible experience in-between are all here for the taking. You have the freedom to recognize what this is really about, and the freedom to choose how to feel.
The mind is conditioned to expect to doubt, to make you think you have to deprive yourself or sacrifice what matters most. The mind's perspective is clouded by its own judgmental filters. Let them go. See what happens. Shift focus to view everything through the lens of the heart.