Some people always imagine discomfort or look for what is not working. Other people do not even notice anything is wrong. You also have a choice to see everything is as experience without judging it at all. What if you see everything as a timeless teacher? What if it all beckons you to see through the lens of love, unconditional acceptance and compassion. Notice nothing has meaning except the meaning you actually give it. You can selectively forget the past or previous events and see everything as a blank slate.
Consider how your perception of life shifts as you recognize every situation invites you to grow. Choose to be free from problems that do not exist. Problems that have been resolved cannot bother you. Let go of the past and accept the solution is inherent in every perceived problem. Everyone is actually an angel in disguise performing a role to see if he can elicit a reaction from you. What was never is what you do initially see.
"All things appear and disappear because of the concurrence of causes and conditions. Nothing ever exists entirely alone; everything is in relation to everything else." — Buddha