Notice the search for truth, the pursuit of love, happiness, search for sources of permanence and security. Notice the adjectives chosen, such as "you" and "me" or "I," and the conditioned impulse to cling to what is seemingly "mine." Be aware of focus of attention, identification, the way a person views something as "mine" and associates it with being somebody.
When a person forgets what is real, that person is conditioned to create an identity. Notice patterns, habits, beliefs, and revelations. Fear not. You are not what you do. Lose the mind, the body, the person. What is left? Feel what is. Be that. Know what it is to be everything.