The essence of love sees no difference or deficiency.  Awareness is felt by remembering what love is not. You cannot feel negative and positive emotion at the same moment. If someone does not see love in you and through you, this does not reflect anything is wrong with you. That person resists the unconditional love he is.  The human ego mind understands love based on restless desire and the idea of satisfying it.  Consciousness embodies an unchanging essence of being that is love.  This essence of love invites one to surrender to everyting that is an expression of the one love.