Notice what you use as reason to separate from what enables you to feel good. Notice the excuses you give to perpetuate a situation you do not want. How do you use the perceived loss or lack of things as reason to postpone or deprive self from experiencing dreams? What if you could make another choice to experience the fullness of who you are now? The non-physical you gains satisfaction through expansion.
Through all choices, the reality you are invites you to feel fulfillment and satisfaction. Why do you not allow yourself to reach for the feeling that exists already? You can stop clinging to what represents security, well-being and approval and choose to experience it where you are. This is how to move beyond mind's distortions. Every negative emotion tells you that you are more than you allow yourself to be.