As questions that form in the mind fade away, you may forget the original purpose in asking. You may conclude that silence is where the answers exist and suddenly trigger your own revelations. There is no time like the present to notice what you imagine and why.
To grasp where and who you are is to be in harmony with all that is. To realize you are in conflict with something or someone reveals you resist the harmonius state of being, that you choose to struggle against full acceptance. Whenever you do not feel at peace, step back. Observe. Situations and perceptions do not punish anyone. We only ever choose to punish ourselves and imagine reasons for all that.