Very often, people feel as though their choices project results which would leave them in an awkward position either way. When was the last time you felt torn among choices? What kind of experience do you have in this regard? Reflect on this amidst any quandry;
1) Consider the hidden reasons you are drawn to each choice.
2) Notice when your impulse is to appease others at expense of self.
3) Remember you are not meant to please everyone (& seeking to do so reflects state of mind).
4) Ask what is real about the question. Transitory emotional states are not real.
5) Ponder the significance of a silent mind. Events follow events. See things as they are.