Notice everyone is not in the same feeling place of awareness. Consider you do not share the feeling specifics of an experience the same way with everyone you know. People relate to different aspects of a given story, based on whether it is something they want or not. Where you focus attention helps you realize why you want to build bridges of awareness. People choose to awaken to the power of their own thoughts and emotions or not. Whether you allow others freedom to choose affects your vibration.
That is, each person accepts or resists unconditional love, pure joy and fulfillment available to them. They embrace or reject security and wellness. As you deliberately choose things that enable you to feel good, you orient your vibration to transform your life. People enter your scope of awareness who relate to your focus, who get excited about what excites you, who consciously expand insight into adjusting vibrations.