Goso said, "When you meet a man of the Way on the path, do not meet him with words or in silence. Tell me, how will you meet him?"
If you are not yet clear about it, you are far from saving yourself. Yet, all is not lost. Consider the alternatives.
You need not punch him in the jaw.
Be watchful in every way. When you have realized this wisdom, peace and order will reign over your mind.