People who discern light from dark do not deny darkness. This is not about judging. It is about understanding you cannot have lighter without the darker. Notice the complimentary nature of all feelings and situations is part of expanding awareness. You are invited to reclaim your true self.
You are in the process of realizing part of your role is to help heal human hearts. You need not be a surgeon. You are sensing and aligning energy on other levels.
In another way, you are beginning to discern the difference between universal laws and man made laws. What you focus on is what you get. The more you focus on what is working, the more you notice things working in your favor. It is a fascinating moment to be alive.
What do you ache for? Would you risk disapproval for the experience of love? Can you endure pain without moving to hide it, repair or ignore it? How do you evolve to recognize and transcend limitations? Can you disappoint someone and still be true to yourself? Check out Oriah Mountain Dreamer's work. She wants to know if you can be alone with yourself and truly love the company you keep, even during the empty moments.