Unconditional love and acceptance may not come easily to you. Your role models may have sent mixed messages or, these may be strange or foreign concepts. How you view your existence, purpose and interpret meaning can change dramatically.
Everyone can evolve to become more aware of the reasons for their behaviour. Knowledge can empower you, no matter where you are or how you currently view the world. You are in process of resolving inner conflict and developing new perspective.
What you choose to see relates to your beliefs as much as to hidden issues within you that often go unnoticed or ignored. As you choose to exercise kindness and patience with yourself, you are working through another stage in your growth process. Consider six ways to show unconditional love and acceptance;
1) Rather than ask what a person does for a living, inquire instead what evokes joy and contributes to a meaningful life.
2) Rather than value people based on what they do, opt instead to love and accept them because they exist as they are.
3) Rather than live your life to please others, choose instead to grow to understand and learn what it is to please yourself.
4) Rather than do what is conditioned or expected, swallow your pride or fear and choose instead to do what feels right.
5) Rather than criticize, reprimand and emprison the mind, decide instead to boost esteem and praise freedom.
6) Rather than highlight drawbacks of loss, mistakes and failure, concentrate instead on the benefits of all experience.