Everyone you interact with will not always agree with your views. In fact, some people may seem like they only know how to disagree, criticize or misunderstand your point. This can lead to awkward moments. You may not know what to say.
You may be in a car accident and be blamed for what you feel was not your fault. You may waiting for the bus and find another person blames you for missing it when that person did not choose to check the schedule. You may attempt to convey an experience that someone else chooses not to accept or understand. The negative vibes or silence speak volumes.
You can be well-meaning in your gestures and still be treated in ways you do not feel you deserve. How do you deal with situations that you almost wish were dreams?
1) Be grateful. Step back to realize how this situation offers you priceless wisdom. This is an opportunity to realize the world does not revolve around you. This is a situation meant to show you everyone will not think and act like you. The reactions of others teach you more about what you are not. In turn, you are invited to learn more about what you are.
2) Learn tolerance. You are not expected to agree with everyone or be understood by everyone all the time or even some of the time. Each person views the world though their own experience, expectations and assumptions. This can lead to your view of disagreement or misunderstanding. You are given the gift of options. You have choices to live and let live.
3) Expand your perspective. However you believe you are being treated, you are missing something. You are not seeing how the other person does. Your judgement is based on a limited view. Relish a chance to expand your perspective. Imagine yourself in their shoes and imagine why they might feel as they do. Learn power in opening to possibilities.
4) Love people as they are. You embrace life as you learn to love and appreciate people for who they are. Insodoing, you discover new reasons to love and accept yourself more fully. Part of this process offers insight into forgiveness. As you forgive a person for what he is not, for things he did not do or say, for all that he is, you evolve to value your mistakes and imperfections. You expand and grow in love.
5) Decide to be the bigger person. You always have choices about how to expend your energy. Where it makes sense, you may determine a battle is warranted. You can exert effort to convince the other person of your position or point of view. Yet, stepping back may help you realize it makes more sense to let it go. Even silence has timeless, intrinsic value.