Every moment of every day, you are recieving messages. They come from within and around you. They take different forms. Yet, you are not always receptive. You do not always choose to acknowledge the messages or take them on-board.
Consider the sorts of people you meet and the kind of conditions that define your life. Situations repeat. You will find yourself in conflict with different people for the same reasons which you do not notice. Does this imply you are unwilling or not ready to see things for what they are? History repeats itself to teach you meaningful things.
It is not a question of whether a message is for you. Rather, it is a question of whether you are willing to receive and decode each one. You have the power and ability to do so. It will happen at your pace. What kinds of messages would you desire to receive? Did you know that is coming your way already? All you have to do is accept it with gratitude.