To meditate on something other than the self allows widsom to reveal itself. To discover the feeling of selflessness arises on the inside. Are you ready to embrace experiences that demonstrate how much you love yourself? Will you accept that all you do or do not do serves you?
Everything unfolds as is predicted, not based on the visions of self-interested people, but as is meant to be. You will recognize when trials seem unavoidable in your life. Yet, you will also evolve to sense trials arise and test you for good reason. Uncover the wisdom.
To ask yourself how a given situation will improve you isn't a question to pose before an experience. Only after you live and learn are you in a position to reflect or grasp why obstacles stood in your path. You create obstacles to learn to overcome each of them.
From whichever vantage point you gaze, the world and your conditions will appear different. Yet, you are always the same being. This shows you that only your perception and self-image change, not who or where you are. Improvement is a state of mind.