In order to take steps to live the life you're meant to live, its meaningful to realize all you need is within reach already.  This perspective may throw part of your mind spinning. 

After all, human beings are often taught that motivation is grounded in something you don't have but would like to have or experience.  If you have what you need, then what happens to motivation?  Would it lose something significant or, gain something else?

How you are motivated begins with your beliefs.  When you are conditioned to believe you lack what you need, you motivate yourself to satisfy such needs.  When you associate happiness with a certain image imposed from outside yourself, then you teach yourself seek what you think you don't have.  Its all about the thoughts you nurture.

Some people discover the life they feel meant to lead based on a process of elimination.  They gradually eliminate those thoughts, behaviours that don't enable them to feel good.  If you don't know yet what this means,  at least you can say what it isn't.  That's a step in the right direction.  You need to believe you're in the right place for you at this moment.

To seize the life you're meant to live, you don't have to go somewhere you're not.  It makes sense to build confidence wherever you are.  Have you learned what it means to be constantly mindful? To be conscious implies you connect to everything.  Thoughts and dreams are interconnected.  They assist you to see behind your values and principles.