Have you ever felt as though 'where you're at' isn't 'where you're meant to be?' This gut feeling may be hard to explain.  Its like a spark of doubt that nudges you from time to time as if to distract you from what you're doing at that moment. What should you be?

If you suddenly feel as though you're in the wrong place at the wrong time, then its easy to get discouraged.  The negative energy may start to pour out in the form of disbelief, frustration, impatience, even anger.  Once you start this, a domino effect can ensue.

As you learn to step back from a given situation, you gain an insightful view of greater objectivity.  It becomes clearer that negative thoughts generate negative feelings and that one negative feeling gives birth to another, until you consciously put on the brakes. 

So, no matter what your conditions, you can begin by deciding they are good for you, even if you have yet to work out why.  You can choose to believe that where you're at is a stepping stone on the road where you're meant to be.  This is part of an inner process.

Where you are and where you're going are based on your perception.  As you evolve to discern positive reasons for being where you are, you begin to realize how your conditions serve you.  A shift in mindset doesn't require you travel.  Growth is a choice.