Each of us lives a life based on what we focus on.  This goes further than simply relating experiences back to a passing thought.  It can actually be traced back to core beliefs.  How well do you know yours? Are you aware your telepathic thoughts have implications?

You reinforce your reality both consciously and unconsciously.  You may find it easier to intuit core beliefs in other people.  Yet, as you begin to link behavior back to thoughts in others, you will gradually become less blind to your beliefs.  You will also begin to discern "positive" and "negative" only gain meaning when you get convinced you're dissatisfied.  To become more aware of why you reinforce this negativity helps shatter your illusions.

Let's say you feel as though you have recently faced an unusual number of unforeseen challenges.  How you react to each influences what comes next.  So, if your words and actions are reinforcing resentments, anger, bitterness, thoughts of doubt and failure, then your experience will reinforce this.  Do you connect events with your core beliefs?

Consider a man I know was excited to get married and felt devastated when his fiance broke it off less than a month before the event.  A number of issues surfaced during pre-marriage sessions with the minister, such as the bride-to-be was still married and had emotional  baggage from prior marriages she wasn't willing to work through. 

A week after the broken engagement, the woman returned to her estranged husband and demanded money from her ex-fiance to pay wedding bills. Now, the ex-groom-to-be paid the first half and then discovered some bills didn't exist (i.e. the wedding venue rental deposit had been returned a month before ex-bride-to-be broke engagement.) The ex-groom-to-be stopped further payment.  He blames the ex-fiance for strife and missing personal property and she blames his inability to communicate and listen for her lot.  Lawyers are now involved. As beliefs generate negative emotions, a situation can spiral. 

Clearly, dishonesty played a role in the disintegration of this relationship, but each person is accountable for his or her own actions which are themselves based on core beliefs.  How well you know yourself influences the kinds of partners you attract and the kind of treatment you accept.  To become aware of your own ideas and beliefs about love, trust, understanding, faith and other qualities, you choose experiences that can help you to remove your own blinders.   Do your core beliefs work to your advantage?

In other words, the life experiences you choose enable you to come face-to-face with how you judge yourself.  On a conscious level, you may not be aware of things like; low self-esteem, negative self-image, self-destructive behavior or self-limiting thinking.  A core belief stays invisible if you assume its a fact of life and not a belief about life.  Whether or not you are willing to acknowledge and deal with core beliefs determines whether your physical experience reinforces them or teaches you anything different.