You may have heard that the best way to get the outcome you hope for is to detach from it completely.   Detachment would acknowledge you don't control the final result.  Yet, you can value that, and roles of faith and trust, and go about things slightly differently.

Another perspective involves accepting its not you who creates or chooses an outcome.  Rather, you select among varied possibilities.  Do you ever identify a scenario in your mind and begin to detect what feels right?  Do you sense its possible to feel what works?

Prepare yourself.  This is all about learning to ignore what you see with your eyes, or to base your belief on the limits of your conditioned perception.  Its a matter of transcending the confines of your mind.  How often to you reflect on 'the unthinkable?'

Its up to you to decide what is and isn't real.  You can select a scenario that your rational mind would overlook.  Remind yourself that you sense vibrations on a subconscious level.  You know what feels right.  You can control your thoughts and intend things before you let go.  You can become sensitive enough to consciously select what's in harmony.  The universe works the rest You'll get what you expect subconsciously.