1) Choose not to disregard your fantasies
2) Stop listening only to what other people tell you
3) Expend effort to explore your interests and talents
4) Listen to your heart
5) Focus on your strengths
6) Imagine what you would be doing if you had no limits
7) Brainstorm what drives you
8) Take time to write down your thoughts
9) Learn to dissolve your fears
10) Raise awareness of how you lie to yourself (this is the first step to shatter your own illusions)